"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Importance of Female to Male Ratio in dating.

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I'm going to tell you of a surreal incident that happened to me. A LEGITIMATE female friend, not someone I tried to date and tried to "friendszone" me like a typical flake, but a former co-worker who I get along great with, and who happens to be female, calls me up and invites me for a night of drinking and kareokee. Right up my alley, so off I go. When I got to the place, she was literally "holding court" (She is about an HB8, 38dd) at the table, sitting at the head of it, with literally 7 men sitting around her. I was number 8. Three guys were bringing her drinks, and one persistant and pathetic and obese AFC kept trying to hold her hand, dance with her, ect. She is a cool, and fun person, but Gotdamn, every male there wanted inside her panties, and she knew it, but was definitley into another male who was not there.

But it got me thinking. I cannot even IMAGINE a scenario like that reversed, I have been to countless pubs, bars, and some of the Biggest Clubs on both Coasts, and have NEVER EVER seen a male, holding court with 7 interested females, unless I was watching that show about Hugh Hefner.

It's all about Female to Male Ratio. A friend of mine worked in a Rehab Facility and told me of a little ugly Native American male, all of 5'4 and 120 pounds of skin and bone, was having regular sex with basically a Supermodel. Why? On the street, in the Real World, this guy would be her baggage handler. But inside a basically locked down facility, this guy was essentially Puffy Combs to her. There was no one else, so with just a little game, this little man turned into the ultimate DJ.

Where I am at the ratio is particularly pathetic, about 10 to 1 according to some research. 10 wolflike, horny males, for every decent looking HB7-8. Women are accordingly arrogant, and picky. They can even be overweight and have a fatherless child, and can still afford to "hold court" and play games, because there are always 8-9 other suckers who will buy them drinks, dinner, ect.

I'd love, just once in life to experience a place, even if just for a weekend, where the Ratio was reversed, and see how things work.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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All very true. BUT...
that woman will be of she alread is a SLAVE to her Ego. And look at life as Ego gratification, not anything meaningful.
While I think it's fun to expereince that as a man, ultimately if you have any real enlightenment and development, you will not want to stroke your ego so hard like this.
And Im sure there are plenty of men who 'hold court'.
just think of Steven Tyler or David Lee Roth, Robert Plant all those guys. The classic rock star legends, man.
You don't think they had hordes of women waiting for them outside their hotel doors??
Or when they went out clubbing? or backstage?
C'mon.
Surely they did, and many guys today do too.


Again, if it hurts you, it is hurting your ego. Because youre dealing with feeling s of lack of entitlement or unworthiness and things like that.

This stuff only truly affects guys who operate from the ego, noit their true self worth.

jealousy and envy are things to be stricken from the mind. They are toxic and they only grow in strenght as time goes on.



So this woman is 'fine, hawt whatever.
Is she really that great of a woman? A Lady, femenine and nurturing, classy and well mannered, and attentive to you?

I think not.


So yeah, funny observatio. But I dont think any gy shoudl let this get him down.

Whenever we seek breadth, and NOT DEPTH..we are dealing strictly from the EGO.
 

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Where The Chics Are..........interesting Article........let Me Write It

Brb
 

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You could go to Rekjavic. 5:1 female to male ratio. Plus they're Scandanavian....I think I might move there when I have a little money. :D
 

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L777 said:
You could go to Rekjavic. 5:1 female to male ratio. Plus they're Scandanavian....I think I might move there when I have a little money. :D
Wow. I wonder what a typical Friday night at the pub is like there. I mean, if it's 5 to one, and you have even minimal game, shhit, I'll bet they would fukking have catfights over who got to go home and sleep with you after the bars closed!!!:eek: :eek: :eek:
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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JackPrescott said:
Wow. I wonder what a typical Friday night at the pub is like there. I mean, if it's 5 to one, and you have even minimal game, shhit, I'll bet they would fukking have catfights over who got to go home and sleep with you after the bars closed!!!:eek: :eek: :eek:
Possibly, but its *really* expensive city, like more expensive than London or New York, so I'm imagining all of the guys there that are getting laid are minted.

Still, I'm sure you could get laid with good game on vacation, living there would take a fair bit of financial clout though.
 

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Interceptor said:
...just think of Steven Tyler or David Lee Roth, Robert Plant all those guys. The classic rock star legends, man.....

THATS HIS POINT... REGULAR WOMEN GET TO LIVE LIKE ROCK START LEGENDS....

I AM SOO GLAD THIS THREAD CAMe UP AS I HAVE BEEN making this point for a long long time about the ratio of men to women. and how it affects womens' value..
 

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DonGorgon said:
THATS HIS POINT... REGULAR WOMEN GET TO LIVE LIKE ROCK START LEGENDS....

I AM SOO GLAD THIS THREAD CAMe UP AS I HAVE BEEN making this point for a long long time about the ratio of men to women. and how it affects womens' value..
I know this, because I've lived it. In a typical nightclub, when it is "sausage factory night" women are arrogant, aloof, and care free, and accept free drinks all night, and flirt away, and leave with another woman, holding hands, and sassy walking off into the night, leaving the horny men watching with their mouths open.

I've been in others, where the situation is reversed, and women are ASKING ME to dance, where are you from, ect.
 
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