"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The importance of emotions

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Everyone who wants to be a player will need to learn how to speak seductively to women. How to appeal to their emotions and sexual desire. When you do this, you mix it up with poetry and you say it in a very sleek way. You see the typical player in movies being able to pull this off with ease. That is what you want to become like.

Words like these can totally make women become addicted to you. No men speak to them 'sweet nothings' nowadays. They become infatuated with your words and the rush they get from it. They will start to put you automatically on a pedestal because of the way you can speak to them and touch them emotionally.

Remember, women are about EMOTIONS. They love to feel emotions. It makes them feel ALIVE. I promise you that if you can make a woman cry, laugh, smile, worry, feel happy, angry .. she will feel a lot more blessed than if you drive down in a Bentley, looking like Brad Pitt.

I'm not saying looks/money/wealth aren't important. But women will do anything to get those EMOTIONS. How many times have you heard women say "But I love him?". Her boyfriend can beat her, abuse her, take all her money, fvck her sister, and she still won't leave. "But, I LOVE HIM". How many times have we heard that?

Just learn how to use your words to penetrate into her mind. This is what is called as mind-fvcking. You can totally make women fall for you if you can access those emotions with your words. Either in writing or by speaking them to her.

I don't want to sound like I'm advertising my book, I hate doing that but I included almost 10 pages of examples of the way I speak to women in my book so if you're really interested, check that out. Here's a sample for you:

I already miss your touch and breath and your legs wrapped around my body. This Friday is going to be an explosion of passion between our souls and our bodies. We'll finally have enough time to connect on deeper levels and satisfy each other's hungry desires....But.... I bet somehow, only hours after, we will miss each other more than we do now. We will miss each other's touch..... our bodies.... our smell.... our pleasure..... our emotion ... our passion together... that feeling that we're build for one another... to please each other .... and give everything we have to give...... to the point where it takes on new meanings of the word .....passion. Ain't that right babygirl?
This stuff will get you some crazy responses from women.

Most guys don't even imagine what these types of words can do to women. Men are not emotional like women, we are LOGICAL. We look at something face value.

But when a woman starts visualizing being touched.. being caressed.. having her lips tasted by a man and her thighs devoured... they totally lose control.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Awesome post.

One of the haters of you on here might read the words you outlined that you say to some chick to get her all hot and bothered and obsessed with you and that hater will say "What a load of BS" or something to that effect but what the guy is missing is what you wrote just now isn't for the male mind to think is awesome but the female mind and what you wrote does work on chicks.

They eat that stuff right up and its kind of amazing when you think about it as the AFC does pretty much the same thing when he spills his guts to some b!tch but the problem is he's not doing it from a position of strength and conviction so it falls flat.

Anyway though again I say awesome post!
 

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Thanks for the support guys. I knew you guys would get it =)

I was expecting more hate from the afc's on the site though.
 

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great stuff. I would have to write this on a letter or email because there is no way this fits my persona.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sounds like some rehearsed script out of a movie and the particular script you quoted sounds like you already had sex with the girl, so it doesn't sound like some sort of magical seductive step.

But hey what do I know, I'm a virgin, so I don't understand a woman's legs being wrapped around me, so that book is not for me.
 

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Luke Skywalker said:
Sounds like some rehearsed script out of a movie and the particular script you quoted sounds like you already had sex with the girl, so it doesn't sound like some sort of magical seductive step.
Seduction doesn't stop. The game doesn't stop.

But hey what do I know, I'm a virgin, so I don't understand a woman's legs being wrapped around me, so that book is not for me.
Then STFU.

Go for a run or something. Get something done with your life.
 

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Luke Skywalker said:
Sounds like some rehearsed script out of a movie and the particular script you quoted sounds like you already had sex with the girl, so it doesn't sound like some sort of magical seductive step.

But hey what do I know, I'm a virgin, so I don't understand a woman's legs being wrapped around me, so that book is not for me.
Over 2,000 posts of stupid useless comments and you have not gotten laid once? :nono: How dare you give advice to anyone when you can't even get your d1ck wet?
 

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I already miss your touch and breath and your legs wrapped around my body. This Friday is going to be an explosion of passion between our souls and our bodies. We'll finally have enough time to connect on deeper levels and satisfy each other's hungry desires....But.... I bet somehow, only hours after, we will miss each other more than we do now. We will miss each other's touch..... our bodies.... our smell.... our pleasure..... our emotion ... our passion together... that feeling that we're build for one another... to please each other .... and give everything we have to give...... to the point where it takes on new meanings of the word .....passion. Ain't that right babygirl?
I'm not sure what plates you're spinning, but I think that has the potential to come off as very, very creepy.

Sure, passionate and sexy language coupled with confidence can get a man awfully far. However, your example is so insanely over the top that I think very few women would take the bait. Even if it was delivered with amazing intensity, it still seems pretty corny.

You're trying to tell me that a mega-AFC (think Screech) could get laid by reciting a bunch of banter that sounds like it's from an old romance novel? Please. If your book had the magical secrets to getting laid I think every man in America would own three copies.
 
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