"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The importance of convo

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Don Juan
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Conversation skills are some of the hardest skills to learn for members of this online community. If you cannot hold a decent conversation with a woman then your game will more than likely suck and your chances of getting laid become slim to none.

Years ago the masters of the game called pimps said you need the 4 "C's" of pimping. Those being:

1. Clothes
2. Car
3. Crib-your home
4. Convo.

Anyone with an ounce of game can see the validity of those 4 key elements of game.

With conversation skills you develop rapport with her, which allows her to relax and let you in.

Here is an exercise that I did recently with some aspiring players:

 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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