"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The importance of convo

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Don Juan
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Conversation skills are some of the hardest skills to learn for members of this online community. If you cannot hold a decent conversation with a woman then your game will more than likely suck and your chances of getting laid become slim to none.

Years ago the masters of the game called pimps said you need the 4 "C's" of pimping. Those being:

1. Clothes
2. Car
3. Crib-your home
4. Convo.

Anyone with an ounce of game can see the validity of those 4 key elements of game.

With conversation skills you develop rapport with her, which allows her to relax and let you in.

Here is an exercise that I did recently with some aspiring players:

 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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