"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The importance of convo

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Don Juan
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Conversation skills are some of the hardest skills to learn for members of this online community. If you cannot hold a decent conversation with a woman then your game will more than likely suck and your chances of getting laid become slim to none.

Years ago the masters of the game called pimps said you need the 4 "C's" of pimping. Those being:

1. Clothes
2. Car
3. Crib-your home
4. Convo.

Anyone with an ounce of game can see the validity of those 4 key elements of game.

With conversation skills you develop rapport with her, which allows her to relax and let you in.

Here is an exercise that I did recently with some aspiring players:

 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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