"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

The "I'm so Freaking happy now..." Moment

Augustus_McCrae

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 3, 2012
Messages
907
Reaction score
1,020
For you guys who have come out of a long term marriage or a long term
relationship, have you had this moment yet?

You look at the woman (or women) you're with now, then compare how they look to how your ex looks, and you are just SO FREAKING happy that you aren't with that ugly, worn out, old looking woman any more?

The difference in the way my girlfriend looks and how my ex looks is just absolutely stunning.

My ex was cute when I met her, but now? She's just haggard and tense looking. We're talking "Hit the wall at Mach 3" looking.

So, yeah I'm almost giddy about not having to wake up next to that worn out old bag any more (and I'm actually 5 years younger than the ex, but she looks 15 years older).

-Augustus
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

expos

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 10, 2013
Messages
792
Reaction score
132
Not the same for me. My ex-wife looked haggard in our marriage and got really fat, but really improved herself after I asked for a divorce.

She looks amazing now, and it disgusts me.

I wish I was in your situation lol...
 

sodbuster

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 11, 2008
Messages
2,560
Reaction score
373
Age
67
Location
South Dakota
Saw a woman coming toward me in a store... a bit overweight, graying, and looking pissed. I was thinking some poor bastard has to f&ck THAT..... then I realized it was my ex....
 

Augustus_McCrae

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 3, 2012
Messages
907
Reaction score
1,020
Sodbuster,

She must have riding shotgun for my ex wife during the Mach 3 impact... :eek:
 

XR 600

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 18, 2011
Messages
31
Reaction score
1
sodbuster said:
Saw a woman coming toward me in a store... a bit overweight, graying, and looking pissed. I was thinking some poor bastard has to f&ck THAT..... then I realized it was my ex....
lol!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Top