Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The illusion of value

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Super models, movie stars, entrepreneurs, millionaires. All super 'high value'.

But why?

All above eat the same as you and I. Sh1t the same, fart, burp and sleep the same as you and I.

So what makes them high value?

You do. To be with a super model HB10 elevates you IN THE EYES OF OTHERS. When the lights are out her HBness doesn't amount to a hill of beans. We're all the same.

If you cared less about what others thought you would see that 'value' in and of itself is but a mere illusion.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If you cared less about what others thought you would see that 'value' in and of itself is but a mere illusion.
You are wrong.Resources are value.

There is value

- money
- sex with beautiful women or pretty children with her
- connections from fame

these are rare resources like gold that's why they have value, if everybody would be millionere money would have no value,if every woman would be beautiful beauty would have no value.
 

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JohnyTheArrow said:
You are wrong.Resources are value.

There is value

- money
- sex with beautiful women or pretty children with her
- connections from fame

these are rare resources like gold that's why they have value, if everybody would be millionere money would have no value,if every woman would be beautiful beauty would have no value.
value to whom?

- if you are a millionaire you are valuable IN THE EYES OF OTHERS because you have something to give. you are not valuable in and of yourself. give all your money away and tell me how valuable you are.

- sex? both of your 'value' last only as long as you are attracted to one another.

- connections of fame? only as long as your 'fame' lasts. in and of yourself you have no value.

gold holds it value because it is constant. money, sex and fame are not constant.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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There is some truth to this in that hot women don't have universal value. This means they only have value in certain situations while in others they are useless.

Money, health and time are the most valuable things in the world because without them.. your life sucks or is very limited. The more money you have.. the lower the value of a hot women becomes.. because you have more to choose from.

Time and health are the most important things though. You need your health to live life. You need time to make money. You need money to get the best resources. You only need women for reproduction and sexual urges.. and even then.. they are more of a "want" than a "need".

This is why you should always prioritize your life in this order:

-Health
-Time
-Money
-Your passions
-Family
-Friends








-Women
 
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