"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The "I Do Things On My Own Terms" Story

Young Stallion

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This happened to me a couple of days ago with Library girl and I am sharing it to show a story on how to use attraction and neg hits to get a girl going crazy.

Was sitting at home with Library girl, apparently she now lives at my apartment at least 2-3 nights a week. Which is good because she's such a geek and I can help her get a life! JK she is a wonderful person!

She was sitting on one of my couches and I was sitting on the other.

I asked her what she wanted to do for dinner.

She said that she thought I had lasagna in the fridge.

I told her that I didnt want lasagna and we should order pizza.

She said that was a good deal as long as I was paying.

I said sure I will pay with your money, you got any on you.

She laughed and said she had a ten.

Then after 5 minutes she asked me when I was going to order the pizza and that I should order it right away because she was hungry.

I then told her that I do things on my own terms.....I litterally leaned back, smiled and said "I do things on my own terms".

She looked suprised, laughed and said "excuse me"

I just leaned back and said "you heard me right fancy face".

Then she got up and straddled me and said "Thats so rude, why did you say that, thats so mean"

I took her arms gently and said "say f*ck you"

She then said "excuse me"

I laughed and said, come on I want to hear you say it, you know your mad at me and want to say it to me.

She said "f*ck you" in the sweetest, squeekiest, shye voice I have ever heard those words uttered.

Then I kissed her....she kissed me back and it ended in a sizzling couch session. She was going crazy and full of lust.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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I like this. I use this in general in social settings, people have learned to wait for me to take action instead of ordering me around. If someone asks me to do something, I said okay, and wait a couple minutes on purpose, THEN do it--as a favor. Or if they ask me, I ask them to do something too, while I do their "favor", in a sly sneaky way as if I WAS going to do something else. I'm helping them, so they should do what I WAS going to do instead.
 
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