Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The hypocrisy of women

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Yes this is one of those threads. Keep moving if you don't wanna hear it. But I've noticed for a while now the kind of criticisms women throw around -they are guilty of themselves x10

Privelleged- think about who actually has special rights and advantages. Who the courts side with, who are expected to be saved first on a sinking ship, who are given top positions to fill quotas. Women are literally the definition of privelleged. Everyone else has to earn it

Shallow - This one is amazing. Women are the most insanely picky creatures on the planet yet men are the shallow ones. If you are just centimeters too short or too fat or too bald you will get rejected. Men on the other hand will HAPPILY date down and tend to ignore most flaws in women

Sexxx mad - So women spend half the day sexxxualizing themselves, pumping the beauty industry which is worth a TRILLION yet men are the ones obsessed with sexxx? Lol men actually have a wide arrange of hobbies, sports and interests that women don't

Don't get me wrong. Men have their flaws. But interestingly women never seem to point them out correctly. They just mirror themselves.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah I've been in the corporate world all my life and women are the very definition of privileged in that environment. A female that can walk and chew gum at the same time will be given every opportunity to advance as far as she wishes regardless of Education or experience. Yet somehow we always hear how women have to be "better" than men to get anywhere. It's a bunch of feminist propaganda.
 

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I've seen women complain that there manager was sexist, when in reality the guy was just a **** to everyone. The women became protected within the company with a raises, title changes, and they don't have to produce ****. They now have a cushy jobs collecting a paycheck and don't even have to work. They can't be fired, because the company doesn't want the bad PR.

After my ex worked at her company for about a year she started complaining that it was sexist that a male colleague made more money than her. The man worked for that company for almost 10 years, and was in the industry even longer. What a powerful negotiating strategy that is. If you don't give me a raise its sexist.
 

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So women spend half the day sexxxualizing themselves, pumping the beauty industry which is worth a TRILLION yet men are the ones obsessed with sexxx?
What's else of value do they have other then that?

However its their extreme selfishness and greed that's driving the economy of the world.

Without their greed, men wont build supermarkets, shopping malls etc that requires massive amount of factories all over the world and worse yet, men won't have any jobs, that's dangerous too, all those young men without anything to do...

So in the end it all balances out.
 

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Yes this is one of those threads. Keep moving if you don't wanna hear it. But I've noticed for a while now the kind of criticisms women throw around -they are guilty of themselves x10

1. Privelleged- think about who actually has special rights and advantages. Who the courts side with, who are expected to be saved first on a sinking ship, who are given top positions to fill quotas. Women are literally the definition of privelleged. Everyone else has to earn it

2. Shallow - This one is amazing. Women are the most insanely picky creatures on the planet yet men are the shallow ones. If you are just centimeters too short or too fat or too bald you will get rejected. Men on the other hand will HAPPILY date down and tend to ignore most flaws in women

3. Sexxx mad - So women spend half the day sexxxualizing themselves, pumping the beauty industry which is worth a TRILLION yet men are the ones obsessed with sexxx? Lol men actually have a wide arrange of hobbies, sports and interests that women don't

Don't get me wrong. Men have their flaws. But interestingly women never seem to point them out correctly. They just mirror themselves.
Agree completely. I'll add to #3 because it's probably talked about least.

Women's magazines have more (and more graphic) sex articles than men's magazines. Also, back in ancient times (i.e. pre-February 2020), when men would go to a strip club, they would look at boobs, drink and makes some jokes with their buddies. When women would go to a male strip show, they would go INSANE and start yelling and grabbing the stripper guy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The fact that women spend so much time sexualizing themselves trying to get attention, yet don’t want to be “objectified”, is one of the biggest hypocrisies in the history of mankind.
meh nothing really new, also take note only woman who complain about it, are woman who don't get said atencion, so they don't want other woman do get this, doing so would amke then feel ugly(with is the reason they don't get any)

just note, are the really hot woman who goes around protesting about it? I never saw a hot one doing so, only the ones who I always think there is nothing for then to worry about
 

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Don't you, as a man, want to strive for the best you can get? Why do you think women do not feel the same? It's in human nature to go for the best you can get.
 

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Don't you, as a man, want to strive for the best you can get? Why do you think women do not feel the same? It's in human nature to go for the best you can get.
Well, women by nature are never satisfied even when they have the best, it's part of female behaviour.

BTW how's things going for you in NYC or have you shifted somewhere else ?
 

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We men have our flaws, but the difference is that society holds us accountable when we screw up.....society does not hold women accountable for their actions....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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We men have our flaws, but the difference is that society holds us accountable when we screw up.....society does not hold women accountable for their actions....
I'd say it going even further than that. Society is telling men they are pieces of **** just for being men. It doesn't matter what your actions are, you are guilty of just being a man. Women on the other hand can do whatever they want because they are the "victims" of society.
 

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We men have our flaws, but the difference is that society holds us accountable when we screw up.....society does not hold women accountable for their actions....
Yes! It seems everything that seems fragile... women, babies, poor people, sick, old, etc.

If men seems to be stronger than women, the weight is heavier for us.

Like, stole from the rich to give to the poor.
 

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Well, women by nature are never satisfied even when they have the best, it's part of female behaviour.

BTW how's things going for you in NYC or have you shifted somewhere else ?
100% agree. Many also attempt to get the best possible deal they can get at that time. Problem is, once that is met, many want more. There in lies the problem.

It's s sh!t show in NYC and surrounding areas. Between the true gloom and doom, the media or gov't are not helping very much. The gov't response was lackluster at best.
 

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100% agree. Many also attempt to get the best possible deal they can get at that time. Problem is, once that is met, many want more. There in lies the problem.

It's s sh!t show in NYC and surrounding areas. Between the true gloom and doom, the media or gov't are not helping very much. The gov't response was lackluster at best.
What's "really" going on in those areas?
 
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Yes this is one of those threads. Keep moving if you don't wanna hear it. But I've noticed for a while now the kind of criticisms women throw around -they are guilty of themselves x10

Privelleged- think about who actually has special rights and advantages. Who the courts side with, who are expected to be saved first on a sinking ship, who are given top positions to fill quotas. Women are literally the definition of privelleged. Everyone else has to earn it

Shallow - This one is amazing. Women are the most insanely picky creatures on the planet yet men are the shallow ones. If you are just centimeters too short or too fat or too bald you will get rejected. Men on the other hand will HAPPILY date down and tend to ignore most flaws in women

Sexxx mad - So women spend half the day sexxxualizing themselves, pumping the beauty industry which is worth a TRILLION yet men are the ones obsessed with sexxx? Lol men actually have a wide arrange of hobbies, sports and interests that women don't

Don't get me wrong. Men have their flaws. But interestingly women never seem to point them out correctly. They just mirror themselves.
Rule #1. Pay no attention to what women say. They'll say anything and they never shut up. It's what they do that matters.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Agree completely. I'll add to #3 because it's probably talked about least.

Women's magazines have more (and more graphic) sex articles than men's magazines. Also, back in ancient times (i.e. pre-February 2020), when men would go to a strip club, they would look at boobs, drink and makes some jokes with their buddies. When women would go to a male strip show, they would go INSANE and start yelling and grabbing the stripper guy.
And suck him off
 
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Yes this is one of those threads. Keep moving if you don't wanna hear it. But I've noticed for a while now the kind of criticisms women throw around -they are guilty of themselves x10

Privelleged- think about who actually has special rights and advantages. Who the courts side with, who are expected to be saved first on a sinking ship, who are given top positions to fill quotas. Women are literally the definition of privelleged. Everyone else has to earn it

Shallow - This one is amazing. Women are the most insanely picky creatures on the planet yet men are the shallow ones. If you are just centimeters too short or too fat or too bald you will get rejected. Men on the other hand will HAPPILY date down and tend to ignore most flaws in women

Sexxx mad - So women spend half the day sexxxualizing themselves, pumping the beauty industry which is worth a TRILLION yet men are the ones obsessed with sexxx? Lol men actually have a wide arrange of hobbies, sports and interests that women don't

Don't get me wrong. Men have their flaws. But interestingly women never seem to point them out correctly. They just mirror themselves.
The standards by which a woman is expected to behave isnt the same as that of a man.

I challenge you to act like a girl would in the situation you describe around a bunch of dudes and see what happens.

It's all hypocrisy. But why does that matter? You can't change it you can only adapt.

Don't make the same mistake I made for years of wishing reality was other than it is.

Know her role, know your role. Deal with it.

Cheers,
 

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The standards by which a woman is expected to behave isnt the same as that of a man.

I challenge you to act like a girl would in the situation you describe around a bunch of dudes and see what happens.

It's all hypocrisy. But why does that matter? You can't change it you can only adapt.

Don't make the same mistake I made for years of wishing reality was other than it is.

Know her role, know your role. Deal with it.

Cheers,
What's your "role"?
 

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100% agree. Many also attempt to get the best possible deal they can get at that time. Problem is, once that is met, many want more. There in lies the problem.

It's s sh!t show in NYC and surrounding areas. Between the true gloom and doom, the media or gov't are not helping very much. The gov't response was lackluster at best.
I trust that the stimulus package will help businesses, especially small businesses to survive, small timers gotta eat and pay salaries, rents etc .

Maybe open up certain sections of the city, create a green zone, areas where there's little to no new infections, support it and make it an example of how being disciplined with social distancing helps everyone.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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