"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Vypros

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In fact, the absolute fattest guy I know right now (I'm talking probably 600 lbs. or more) is married to a woman who is a 7 or 8 in the looks department (on a scale of 1 to 10).
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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danielzxc

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For those who criticized this point, I ask you to go out (not to the mall where all your little teeny boppers are running around) but rather to the local market or store or Walmart and just sit outside and observe the guys who are with women.

Take note of how hot the particular woman is, and then pay attention to what the guy looks like.

Some of the hottest women I've ever seen have been with some of the most disgusting looking men I've ever seen.
Ah, but what were those guys like when they MET the said women? Hmmmmm?

Maybe such hot women are willing to STAY with their men after the men become slobs -- by then they're hooked, for whatever reason -- but would they have gotten together in the FIRST place? I doubt it.

(Whether they would or would not have, the above method of determining who hot women might go for must be rejected as invalid.)
 

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danielzxc said:
Ah, but what were those guys like when they MET the said women? Hmmmmm?

Maybe such hot women are willing to STAY with their men after the men become slobs -- by then they're hooked, for whatever reason -- but would they have gotten together in the FIRST place? I doubt it.

(Whether they would or would not have, the above method of determining who hot women might go for must be rejected as invalid.)
why don't you put it to the test then?

Wake up out of bed, don't comb your hair and go to the mall wearing a feed sack.

Approach girls with confidence and charisma, and put some of the things you learned to the test. I'll bet that if you are truly confident and charismatic it won't matter what you're wearing. In fact, wearing the feed sack willl add to your "charm".
 
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