"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJDamage

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For some reasons there are women out there that believe that there should be equality in the bedroom. In terms of getting some I would say that both partners deserve to be satisfied, but in terms of who is doing what to who, there is no equality.

That is why men like submissive and kinky women. If a man wants to fvck a woman in the a$$ or stick his finger there, we don't want to hear: noo I don't like it, its yucky, etc,,, it kills the mood and our pleasure. That is why we end up watching porn from time to time because we like to see a submissive women wanting kinky sex as badley as we do (Remember that saying: MEN WANT A LADY IN THE STREET BUT A FREAK IN THE BED")

If a woman wants to do that a$$ thing to a guy, I would say no because It is gay. I believe someone on this forum did come with a forumla that explicitly say what the difference is, and I agree with it.

MEN PENETRATES WOMEN, WHILE WOMEN GET PENETRATED BY MEN = Trying to change this formula and you are already messing with alternative lifestyles. If you are a guy and likes a finger or a tounge up his a$$, you are already experimenting with your sexuality and who is to say if you like something in there eventually you might experimate with "other" things up there as well.

No offence to those who do.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hey DJDamage. I appreciate your reply. It was very insightful. There's a big misperception that most women have that we know how to please a man just by having a vagina. Well, this is not true. Some women have figured this out and want to know more, i happen to be one of them.

Your theory of penetration makes a a lot of sense!!!

I actually have always massaged the prostate gland from the outside anyway, just by instinctual knowledge. Thus, I think putting the finger inside is really unnecessary and potentially unsexy.
SB;)
 

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I have nothing particularly insightful to say except that seabreeze is a conasse. Give it a rest, girl. Does anyone else notice that she only says exacty what you want to hear? Not in a subtle way, either. "How would guys like it if I let them all touch my boobs whenever they wanted to? Do you guys like that? I'm not a slut, though." Seabreeze, if you are not a 50 year old hairy gay man who masturbates to this site I will eat my hat.

And to answer your next question, yes guys like it when girls masturbate and no, we don't want pictures.
 

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Probably a 50 year old woman with a hundred cats, MsThang. I highly doubt a guy would go to such for lengths for a little attention over the internet.


By the way, nothing up the butt... thats my only rule when it comes to sex.;)
 

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I just thought of something else, DJDamage. You said that guys like a submissive chick in the bed room, but isn't that sort of subjective? I mean, with one of the guys that I've been with I was very submissive with him, and he didn't seem to like it. So, if someone could maybe elaborate on how the delicate balance between being submissive and maybe TOO submissive works, I would really dig it.
Thanks,
SB:)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by MsThang
yes guys like it when girls masturbate

Damn, she's got us pegged.

and no, we don't want pictures.
Oops. You're 1 for 2.
 

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seabreeze all your questioned would be answered if you watched some porn video with your guy and ask him if he would like that, its that simple.

As for your question, variety is the key. I guess there is a fine line between being TOO submissive. I will tell you a little secret which I might be flamed for: with every new guy you come in contact with, you need to pretend at first that you are sexually inexperienced in some areas and you need the guy to guide you through it ( damn I am giving a sex advice to a chick -something is wrong here lol).

Its an ego boast if you pretend not to know something and we guide you through it and you end up loving it. Most guys want to turn the girl next door into their own private adult porn star (or is it just me?) You have to let us make you submissive by showing a bit of resistence at first.

As well I prefer to be in charge 90% of the time but if the chick decides to be in charge by jumping on top of me and rides me (ever see the movie " basic instincts" minus the icepick of coarse), you won't see me complaining :)

That's it no more your on your own.
 

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Hey Gio-Casanova!

How'd your date with penkitten go? I hope you two had fun.:D

Yeah, DJDamage, I'm cool. I've got some good advice and info here and I'm ready to try things out!
Thanks,
SB:)
 

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Originally posted by seabreeze
Hey Gio-Casanova!

How'd your date with penkitten go?
All I will say is, "Karate Explosion."
 

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Originally posted by MsThang
I have nothing particularly insightful to say except that seabreeze is a conasse. Give it a rest, girl. Does anyone else notice that she only says exacty what you want to hear? Not in a subtle way, either. "How would guys like it if I let them all touch my boobs whenever they wanted to? Do you guys like that? I'm not a slut, though." Seabreeze, if you are not a 50 year old hairy gay man who masturbates to this site I will eat my hat.

And to answer your next question, yes guys like it when girls masturbate and no, we don't want pictures.
What she said.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by diablo
What she said.
What who said? The chick who posted a picture of four girls trying to get guys to say that one of them was a mannish hell-beast?
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
What who said? The chick who posted a picture of four girls trying to get guys to say that one of them was a mannish hell-beast?

Uhmm, what exactly do you expect from the women of sosuave (aside from WaterTiger and maybe one or two others, of course) but a bunch of insecure attention *****s!?

Most women are shallow and materialistic. Thus, they are insecure about pretty much everything. Thats probably the main reason why most of them hang around here seeking our approval and attention. I think its kinda funny, personally. :D



...and sad.:(



But mostly funny!:p
 

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Originally posted by Spike_the_Dragon
Uhmm, what exactly do you expect from the women of sosuave
Careful....
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Careful....

Yeah, I didn't realise until just now what I probably started... Sorry, dude.:cool:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Spike_the_Dragon
Yeah, I didn't realise until just now what I probably started... Sorry, dude.:cool:
No problem. :cool:
 

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Hey Dudes! LOL I just posted my picture because Diablo thinks I'm a hairy 50 year old man! Trying to prove yourself a girl around here is fierce! LOL So, calling me an attention ***** is definitely a step up in my book. By the way, how is coming on a cool message board trying to have a decent conversation with some great guys attention whoring? How is it any different than me talking to any of my other male friends? I'm really curious about what makes a gal an attention ***** around here.
SB;)
 

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Originally posted by seabreeze
I'm really curious about what makes a gal an attention ***** around here.
SB;)

Have you read the topics of any of your posts?

No, nevermind... I don't even care to get into it. It would just be more boring conversation.:D
 

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No, please explain Spike, I wanna know. I post about relating to guys, isn't that what I'm supposed to post about? Isn't that what this site is about? Besides, man, I've posted about a LOT of different things too, like playing my bass, my favorite bands, books I'm reading, etc. but those posts don't hang around long enough for some of you guys to see them. And I am just as interested in the answers in those posts as I am in any of the others. It's just that I can't ask my real life male friends questions about sex because they have asked me not to. They say that it makes them feel like I'm teasing them so I ask them here where I know that there are no expectations or chance of being insensitive. You guys are on the internet, not right across the room from me, how can my questions bother you? I don't know...it shouldn't matter what my topics are about. I haven't once asked ANY of you guys to RATE ME or tell me anything positive about myself. I ask you questions because I expect intelligent, straightforward answers and that's usually what I get. What's wrong with that?
SB:confused:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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