I'll field this one again, SeaB.
This first girl I was with was about six years back and she was Puerto Rican
It was her technique that put her over the top.
1-She didn't just lay there, she actually f*cked me back.
(She knew how to use her hips)
2-She was tight and of course, she knew how to really squeeze her p*ssy to maximize her tightness.
3-She was vocal. Any sexual type of sound she made was a turn-on. Yes, even ones that might seem like she's in pain. Moaning, panting, any type of sound is very stimulating.
Playing with the @$$ is dirty in my opinion, my friends have done it with their GF's but it's still nasty and should never be attempted unless the guy is a true freak or halfway-homo.
Swallowing should be encouraged for all women.
http://www.semenex.com (No excuses anymore about taste)
Fast/Slow or Deep/Shallow is all about that person's preference.
Nipple-sucking for guys will always be important.
Each woman is different, but DJDamage is on-point about submissiveness and kinkiness.