"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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kevbo

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summed up, last week my two best friends convinced me to make a move on this girl we knew from school. i got her number, but haven't called her since friday of last week (my only try so far, she wasn't even there) because i can't think of anything i want to do, let alone anywhere i can go on a date (having more than $18 would help a little too). what's a good (and cheap, if not free) first date idea for an area with VERY little to do? (i will not do something as inactive as a movie unless there is NOTHING else i can think of doing)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Ace of Spades

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Rent a movie and watch it at your/her place.

Oh, and before you go out attempting to get dates, get some cash buddy.
 

drixsa

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go putt putt or go bowling, or go to the beach??

can you do that in utah??

get the date first
 

oakraiderz2

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Bowling and ice cream!! Or mini golf and ice cream ( from mcdonalds:D )
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Eternal

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Go with put-put because bowling can run more then $18.
 
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