"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The honor & PRIDE of Quentin "Rampage" Jackson

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If you watched UFC123 last Saturday, you know what I'm talkin' about. Yes, Lyoto was robbed, but it was the look on Rampage's face that stuck to my mind.

What honor! He knew he should have lost! He said as much(perhaps a little too much).

I needed to see that to restore some of my faith in MAN again. Way too many men without honor these days! The backstabbers, the liars, the pvssy-worshipers(By the way, you guys are the worst. You know who you are and I have ZERO respect for you).

Rampage said before the match that he would bring back the Rampage of his PRIDE days, and as far as I'm concerned, HE DID! Honor-wise, anyway. He even played the PRIDE theme for his entrance music! Man, I got goosebumps from that! What a rush!

Can't wait for the rematch.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Actually thats how he fights.....not everyone is stupid and rushes forward the entire time.

machida actually did alot more damage then rampage ever did and personally I think he did get robbed.

1st round machida drops him at the end of the round
2nd gets a takedown
3rd gets full mount

I have actually no idea where rampage got the win nor the round...yeah he got some uppercuts but it didnt even stun machida at all and was able to hug rampage.

I have no idea how a person can win by just walking forward the entire fight and not do any damage while the other guy deals more damage and loses.
 

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j0n24 said:
I have no idea how a person can win by just walking forward the entire fight and not do any damage while the other guy deals more damage and loses.

A judge would call that "demonstrating control of the octagon."

Damage-based scoring is a different issue. I do think damage should be the basis for scoring, but unfortunately it is a political issue. If judges acknowledged that they awarded points for hurting the other guy, then that would hurt the reputation of mma, which is striving to overcome the image of being a bloodsport.

All of this is contrary to the point of an actual fight, which is of course to hurt the other guy. I can only offer the perspective of a low-level amateur fighter, but I lost two judges' decisions to opponents who were obviously move fvcked up than me. One had a purple leg and the other had purple ribs; I did not envy either guy at all. mma scoring is unfortunately not very predictive of which fighter would have won a real fight. It is a shortcoming of the sport.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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