The Irish Corleone
Don Juan
I want to learn to play guitar, any tips on how to start?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
The Hobbies of a DJ!
- Thread starter Sniper2k
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Hobbies include
Scuba Diving
Powerlifting
Football
Video games/Battle field 1942
Reading mostly about military history
fooball cards/baseball cards
making non porno movies
I will Enlist in the army or go to westpoint or VMI
i want to get a Ranger tab
i want to have a total of 1200 for Powermeet b/f next year
i want to travel the world
Scuba Diving
Powerlifting
Football
Video games/Battle field 1942
Reading mostly about military history
fooball cards/baseball cards
making non porno movies
I will Enlist in the army or go to westpoint or VMI
i want to get a Ranger tab
i want to have a total of 1200 for Powermeet b/f next year
i want to travel the world
I listen to Rap
I play sport on sundays
I like to draw
I like to play video games
I like to make video games (I use programs to do this obviously).
I like to go out
I like to read historic, and supernatural things.
I would like to
Maintain a strong and very long relationship with my girlfriend
Meet more people, especially hot girls
Play more basketball
Learn to rap
Learn to Break
Become stronger and not be a quitter (Be A Warrior)
Work out more
Become less lazy
Be employed at a very good casual job
Which eventually will lead me to living a life of success and luxary, in which I have everything I want.
I play sport on sundays
I like to draw
I like to play video games
I like to make video games (I use programs to do this obviously).
I like to go out
I like to read historic, and supernatural things.
I would like to
Maintain a strong and very long relationship with my girlfriend
Meet more people, especially hot girls
Play more basketball
Learn to rap
Learn to Break
Become stronger and not be a quitter (Be A Warrior)
Work out more
Become less lazy
Be employed at a very good casual job
Which eventually will lead me to living a life of success and luxary, in which I have everything I want.
opentoadvice
Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 7, 2003
- Messages
- 21
- Reaction score
- 0
I enjoy:
-Scratching on the turntables
-Jamming out on my guitar
-Flirting with chicks
-Listening to music (currently Jay-Z, the Beatles, At the Drive-In, Blood Brothers, GlassJAw, Bruce Springsteen, classical music, etc.)
-Buying DVDs and watching them! (Amores Perros, Dawn of the Dead, 21 Grams, Braveheart, and He Got Game were some that I recently got)
-Reading Men's Health, Musicians Friend Catalogue, and Rolling Stone, Dan Brown books
-Playing tennis and, recently, basketball
-Scratching on the turntables
-Jamming out on my guitar
-Flirting with chicks
-Listening to music (currently Jay-Z, the Beatles, At the Drive-In, Blood Brothers, GlassJAw, Bruce Springsteen, classical music, etc.)
-Buying DVDs and watching them! (Amores Perros, Dawn of the Dead, 21 Grams, Braveheart, and He Got Game were some that I recently got)
-Reading Men's Health, Musicians Friend Catalogue, and Rolling Stone, Dan Brown books
-Playing tennis and, recently, basketball
ohhh... I love this thread, so many ideas
Keep it up guys!
Well, for hobbies here it goes:
School
Lifting 4 times a week
Eating well and a lot (yeah, its like a hobby)
Listening a lot recently to Zepplin and Audioslave but I like all kinds
School Play - landed a lead
Choir - includes solos and all that too
Guitar
Learning Solfegietto on the piano
Reading
Volunteering at the Hospital
hah... sorry ladies no time for you
I want:
There's the hard section of this rockclimbing thing at the mall nearby
To juggle
To get better at cooking
To keep things up
A heck of a lot more
Keep it up guys!
Well, for hobbies here it goes:
School
Lifting 4 times a week
Eating well and a lot (yeah, its like a hobby)
Listening a lot recently to Zepplin and Audioslave but I like all kinds
School Play - landed a lead
Choir - includes solos and all that too
Guitar
Learning Solfegietto on the piano
Reading
Volunteering at the Hospital
hah... sorry ladies no time for you
I want:
There's the hard section of this rockclimbing thing at the mall nearby
To juggle
To get better at cooking
To keep things up
A heck of a lot more
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ShizamDaMan
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 26, 2003
- Messages
- 1,113
- Reaction score
- 3
Buy a cheapo guitar (Squier Bullet comes to mind), pay for some lessons. That's how I got started
My hobbies include:
working out
playing football with friends
I play ice hockey competetively
watching lots of movies(old classics mainly...70s stuff and things like that)
making short films
listening to all types of rock
playing videogames(mainly sports games) dont get too carried away though
What I want to do:
learn guitar(sorta started)
transfer by the end of the year to the school i want to go to
get better at hockey
working out
playing football with friends
I play ice hockey competetively
watching lots of movies(old classics mainly...70s stuff and things like that)
making short films
listening to all types of rock
playing videogames(mainly sports games) dont get too carried away though
What I want to do:
learn guitar(sorta started)
transfer by the end of the year to the school i want to go to
get better at hockey
TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
Re: Re: The Hobbies of a DJ!
If you cant respect the way the world works enough to learn about it (there is an AMPLE source of info on this very site) than you dont even deserve to be here.
*note, I am not advocating either view, I just want everyone to be able to express their views*
Anyways... I
play soccer
read GQ + classic literature
Work Out
Dance
Drink coffee... those 6 dollar drinks that has a name 200 characters long =)
Write (poetry, articles, stories)
Looking into finding a venue to spar [fight, with a friendly overtone]
Beginning my journey through the world of entrapeneurship
Got an internship @ merril lynch lined up for next year
Life is good.
No, its guys like you who give men a bad name. He has a desire that is befitting of a very successful man. For you to slant that only shows your lack of understand of nature and the foundation of this website.
If you cant respect the way the world works enough to learn about it (there is an AMPLE source of info on this very site) than you dont even deserve to be here.
*note, I am not advocating either view, I just want everyone to be able to express their views*
Anyways... I
play soccer
read GQ + classic literature
Work Out
Dance
Drink coffee... those 6 dollar drinks that has a name 200 characters long =)
Write (poetry, articles, stories)
Looking into finding a venue to spar [fight, with a friendly overtone]
Beginning my journey through the world of entrapeneurship
Got an internship @ merril lynch lined up for next year
Life is good.
i like:
glowsticking/ raving
aggressive inline
comics
muisc rock, rap, techno, trance and others
video games
workout around 3 times a week
checking out some interesting books in barn and noble
drink coffee
counter strike
i want to:
glowstringing
drawing really good
learn some liquid (dance)
get in shape for the summer
have a personality of a dj in other words no wussyness for me
learn to cook
be a better conversationist
glowsticking/ raving
aggressive inline
comics
muisc rock, rap, techno, trance and others
video games
workout around 3 times a week
checking out some interesting books in barn and noble
drink coffee
counter strike
i want to:
glowstringing
drawing really good
learn some liquid (dance)
get in shape for the summer
have a personality of a dj in other words no wussyness for me
learn to cook
be a better conversationist
I LIKE THIS THREAD!!
LOTS OF NEW IDEAS CAN BLOSSOM FOR US FELLOW DJS.
off the top of my head:
piano
recording music at a home studio
rapping
singing
writing music
ps2, gamecube, and broodwar online!
practice spirituality (meditation and that sort of stuff)
tae-kwon-do, kung-fu, tai-chi
pop-locking and breakdancing
reading good epic novels
reading good self-improvement and morality books
working out hard
just a few to name that i can think of right now.
LOTS OF NEW IDEAS CAN BLOSSOM FOR US FELLOW DJS.
off the top of my head:
piano
recording music at a home studio
rapping
singing
writing music
ps2, gamecube, and broodwar online!
practice spirituality (meditation and that sort of stuff)
tae-kwon-do, kung-fu, tai-chi
pop-locking and breakdancing
reading good epic novels
reading good self-improvement and morality books
working out hard
just a few to name that i can think of right now.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
School
Bass guitar
Watching movies and about to start making some amateur films this summer
Playing with my band
Working out a few times a week
School clubs
Teen court(out of school program)
Senior year, I'm also joining our school newspaper staff..should keep me busy
Working at Carmike theatre
Going to parties with my friends
Guys, I've noticed that a lot of you are musicians That's awesome. There's hardly anything better than the gift of music. I'd also like to get more involved in extracurricular activities at school and look more into what I'm going to do after college.
Bass guitar
Watching movies and about to start making some amateur films this summer
Playing with my band
Working out a few times a week
School clubs
Teen court(out of school program)
Senior year, I'm also joining our school newspaper staff..should keep me busy
Working at Carmike theatre
Going to parties with my friends
Guys, I've noticed that a lot of you are musicians
That's awesome. There's hardly anything better than the gift of music. I'd also like to get more involved in extracurricular activities at school and look more into what I'm going to do after college.CribMaster345
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 21, 2004
- Messages
- 67
- Reaction score
- 0
tournament chess player almost master future goal is to become GrandMaster
& many other things including instruments
& many other things including instruments
Sniper2k
Don Juan
some more hobbies of mine
I read posts on sosuave to help perfect my game
I play super mario bros. 3 on my orignal nes (classic games rule!)
I'm learning how to play jazz and rock on my piano
I want to workout to have achieve a lean, muscle-toned body
I want to practice on my social skills to get over my shyness
I want to learn how to give a great speech
I want to learn how to tell a great joke at any given moment
I want to learn how to produce music for hiphop and rock
I want to have an "I don't give a FVCK!" attitude
I read posts on sosuave to help perfect my game
I play super mario bros. 3 on my orignal nes (classic games rule!)
I'm learning how to play jazz and rock on my piano
I want to workout to have achieve a lean, muscle-toned body
I want to practice on my social skills to get over my shyness
I want to learn how to give a great speech
I want to learn how to tell a great joke at any given moment
I want to learn how to produce music for hiphop and rock
I want to have an "I don't give a FVCK!" attitude
SnatchJP
Senior Don Juan
The one and only (so far at least) SnatchJp LIST.
What I've got
What I've got
- Basketball
- Piano
- Guitar (classical)
- Marimba (yes, it's weird but It's fun)
- Music composition (both piano/guitar and Electronic/computer mixing)
- Writing (working on a short novel right now)
- Digital Photography
- Travelling (as far and as often as possible)
- Taking care of my nieces (gotta love the kids)!
- Acting (plays, movies, Improv, and even a little mime on the side)
- Lifting
- Martial Arts (I started Aikido back in middle school, but haven't done any since)
- Winning merit scholarships (I'm going to college this fall)
- DJing (both kinds)
- Dancing (I used to be really afraid of it, but now I'm starting to really enjoy it.)
- Singing (I'm a Baritone/Base. Girls have always told me I've got a soothing voice. I think it's time to put it to use.)
- Hiking, Camping, etc. (Used to do it back in elementary school, haven't had the time since then.)
- Working on Comedy routines (standup)
WaRpEd
Senior Don Juan
NOW:
-I play tennis
-I play guitar (It seems like alot of people do this!?)
-I paint
-I like anything comic!
-I grow carnivorous plants.
-I listen to rock.
LATER:
-I want to learn how to fly a plane.
-I think I want to be psychologist.
-I want to be a straight A student.
-I want get over every single social blunder and be the smoothest son of a **** anyones ever seen.
-I WANT WORLD PEACE (why can't we all just get along?)
-I play tennis
-I play guitar (It seems like alot of people do this!?)
-I paint
-I like anything comic!
-I grow carnivorous plants.
-I listen to rock.
LATER:
-I want to learn how to fly a plane.
-I think I want to be psychologist.
-I want to be a straight A student.
-I want get over every single social blunder and be the smoothest son of a **** anyones ever seen.
-I WANT WORLD PEACE (why can't we all just get along?)
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What I Am
-I am in love with my 94 Acura Integra (import love hell ya lol)
-I train with martial arts at the Akumu Ryu Remmei dojo (crazy sh1t!)
-I like playing basketball
-I enjoy video games
-Hanging with friends
-Love singing (Girls love it to lol)
-Weight lifting
-Basically all sports although I dont play for my school
-Cruisin with my friends
What I Want
-To be a straight A student
-Gain 50 or so pounds by next summer (wish me luck lol)
-Get rid of my gay ass acne (on accutane right now so its getting alot better)
-Be more outgoing
-Get more girls
-Make my past interest fvcking sorry she never gave me a chance
-Get into the college of my choice
-Improve my Christian standing
-Be a better person
-I am in love with my 94 Acura Integra (import love hell ya lol)
-I train with martial arts at the Akumu Ryu Remmei dojo (crazy sh1t!)
-I like playing basketball
-I enjoy video games
-Hanging with friends
-Love singing (Girls love it to lol)
-Weight lifting
-Basically all sports although I dont play for my school
-Cruisin with my friends
What I Want
-To be a straight A student
-Gain 50 or so pounds by next summer (wish me luck lol)
-Get rid of my gay ass acne (on accutane right now so its getting alot better)
-Be more outgoing
-Get more girls
-Make my past interest fvcking sorry she never gave me a chance
-Get into the college of my choice
-Improve my Christian standing
-Be a better person
Sniper2k
Don Juan
bump...
Wow. Lots of things to choose from. I hope this thread really is helping others find kick@$$ things to do with their time.
Wow. Lots of things to choose from. I hope this thread really is helping others find kick@$$ things to do with their time.
oprahjimfrey
Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 26, 2003
- Messages
- 24
- Reaction score
- 0
I DO/HAVE:
- Play Piano (seems common)
- Work out alot
- Sing
- Play basketball
- Play football
I WANT:
- Play guitar (also common)
- Become a doctor
- Get a 6 pack and rock hard pecs
- Just be a good person
- MORE CHIX
- Play Piano (seems common)
- Work out alot
- Sing
- Play basketball
- Play football
I WANT:
- Play guitar (also common)
- Become a doctor
- Get a 6 pack and rock hard pecs
- Just be a good person
- MORE CHIX
oprahjimfrey
Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 26, 2003
- Messages
- 24
- Reaction score
- 0
I DO/HAVE:
- Play Piano (seems common)
- Work out alot
- Sing
- Play basketball
- Play football
- Am an NBA expert
I WANT:
- Play guitar (also common)
- Become a doctor
- Get a 6 pack and rock hard pecs
- Just be a good person
- MORE CHIX
- Play Piano (seems common)
- Work out alot
- Sing
- Play basketball
- Play football
- Am an NBA expert
I WANT:
- Play guitar (also common)
- Become a doctor
- Get a 6 pack and rock hard pecs
- Just be a good person
- MORE CHIX
hockey
paintball
video gaming
my dog (biggest hobby of all)
outings with friends/gf
seducing mass numbers of women and have people refer to me as the biggest ladies man EVER!!!!
Would like:
Read more.
Spend more time with my mom
Be more helpful around the house.
paintball
video gaming
my dog (biggest hobby of all)
outings with friends/gf
seducing mass numbers of women and have people refer to me as the biggest ladies man EVER!!!!
Would like:
Read more.
Spend more time with my mom
Be more helpful around the house.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.