"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Hobbies of a DJ!

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i play soccer
i take up martial arts (aikido and annis-escrima-kali)
i write literary pieces (poems, short stories, articles for the paper)
i play the guitar [hey! i didn't say i knew how! haha] :D
i go out and have fun
i paint
i perform onstage
i get a lotta sleep!!!!!!! haha :p
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nice Thread!

I play Basketball minimum 4 hours

I am a fan of history, especially American History

I practice my video game skill (My bro is just too good at it. I
gotta get him back some day;) )

I practice Anime Drawing everyday

I listen to Rap.


I want to be in the NBA someday...

I want to be a sociologist.

I want to be the best at whatever I do in my life. Period.
(Yes, that includes women 2:p )

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Originally posted by Sniper2k

I want to f*ck 3 b1tches a day
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Guys like you give this site a bad name.

Learn what respect is
Translation...

Blah, blah, blah.....
 
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Play my drumset.
Practice piano.
Compose piano music.
work at ingles video (ill get a better job one day, lol) and mow lawns

I want to work out more
 

localboy_fmx

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I race motocross/supercross
I BMX
I skateboard
I race compact cars on an oval track (95 Mazda Protege)
I am in track (mile run, pole vault)
I lift weights
I paint cars for people on the side
I drag race motorcycles (95 YZF750, loads of mods)



I want to get better at running
I want to be in the Expert class for MX at the end of this year
 

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so respecting a woman isnt important?

and youre never gonna "fvck 3 b1tches a day" if youre the pathetic little @sshole you are.

theres nothing wrong wiht having a sex drive but when you make sex a goal, thats a little messed up.

defeats the whole purpose of this site.


oh and Da-only x, youre not funny. Nice try copying Pook
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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:rolleyes: Hey LuvMyArmyMan, chillout. It was a joke intended to get a laugh out of those who find that humor funny. I apologize for messing with your sensitive side, but don't make it a big deal, hun. Oh and don't insult me for making a lil mistake. I'm not an *******, I do respect women the way they should always be. I just went too far with my words, thats all. We're all cool now, ok? *Gives you flowers and chocolates*. (forgive me y'all if u think this is AFC) :D




anyways....CONTINUE THE THREAD!! We're on a roll here :p




Jay-Z's "Dirt off yo shoulder" Ladies is pimps too, go on brush your shoulder off! CONTINUE THE THREAD!
 

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Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
so respecting a woman isnt important?

and youre never gonna "fvck 3 b1tches a day" if youre the pathetic little @sshole you are.

theres nothing wrong wiht having a sex drive but when you make sex a goal, thats a little messed up.

defeats the whole purpose of this site.


oh and Da-only x, youre not funny. Nice try copying Pook
get the **** out of this site u woman.. we dont welcome women when they dont have constructive comments..

yes i wanna **** as many women as i can.. and so does 99% of the rest of the straight men in the world.. live with it or just ****in die.
 

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I work out 5-6 times a week.
I like playing computer games.
I like playing basketball (I am not very good a it, but I like it).
I hang out with my friends.

I would like to play the guitar.
I would like to play basketball, better.
I would like to have a six-pack.
And to finally become a DJ, for life. :)
 

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I sorta kinda play the piano.

I mix songs on my computer and actually get half-decent response to them (it took a while ;D).

I dance: tap, jazz, ballet (regrettably. It's a required course here and there is a VERY good reason guys don't do this often), and hip-hop (or I at least try ;D).

I sing tenor and baritone, and I act.

I write a lot, particularly journalistically. Back in 7th grade I won first place in a statewide California student journalism convention, going up against 200 other people ranging from 6th graders to 12th graders. One of my finer moments :D

I'd really like to learn to play the guitar and refine my piano. I'd also like to harness this metabolism of mine and work out some--my lower body is pretty strong, but that's not what the ladies look at first, so far as I can see. Heh heh.

Hard to find free time :(
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
so respecting a woman isnt important?

and youre never gonna "fvck 3 b1tches a day" if youre the pathetic little @sshole you are.

theres nothing wrong wiht having a sex drive but when you make sex a goal, thats a little messed up.

defeats the whole purpose of this site.


oh and Da-only x, youre not funny. Nice try copying Pook
Shutup ***** and get back to the stove.







(...for the concerned -- of course I'm joking)
 

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Originally posted by deeloo
get the **** out of this site u woman.. we dont welcome women when they dont have constructive comments..

yes i wanna **** as many women as i can.. and so does 99% of the rest of the straight men in the world.. live with it or just ****in die.

*laughs*


sorry hun, youre never gonna get to screw as many women as you can with THAT kind of attitude towards women.

*struts off laughing*

i pray to GOD you were joking.

and Smooth, funny thing, i LOVE to cook! I'll gladly go back to my stove and oven. hehe. If only i had a kitchen here.


psst...da onlyx......forget what i said. my bad.
 

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Originally posted by deeloo
get the **** out of this site u woman.. we dont welcome women when they dont have constructive comments..

yes i wanna **** as many women as i can.. and so does 99% of the rest of the straight men in the world.. live with it or just ****in die.
What rat hole did you crawl out of?

My hobbies:

Playing guitar
Playing and watching sports
Food
Cars
listening to music
chillin with friends
lifting weights
videogames

What I want to do:

Be a professional play by play sportscaster
Auto racing
Squat 500 lbs
get a lot better at playing guitar
Get a car and make it into my toy, the coolest toy around
Learn how to play the harmonica
Buy a bass guitar
Get married and have a huge family
 

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My hobbies:

Reading,Writing
Kendo, Iaido
WorkingOut
Boxing
RockClimbing
Going out with my friends

What I want to do:

Learn Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu
Bulk up to 80 kg
Study Literature or Philology and Journalism
Go to Japan and train Kendo, Iaido
Become the best I can be.

O and f...uck 1000 b*tches a day:rolleyes: As if our existence should depend on sex and women....:rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
*laughs*


sorry hun, youre never gonna get to screw as many women as you can with THAT kind of attitude towards women.

*struts off laughing*

i pray to GOD you were joking.

and Smooth, funny thing, i LOVE to cook! I'll gladly go back to my stove and oven. hehe. If only i had a kitchen here.


psst...da onlyx......forget what i said. my bad.
lol.. as far as im concerned ive screwed more women than the men you have ever kissed u low-life wannabe-slut... stop givin twisted tips to ppl on this site.. on the other thread u kept talkin about how guys shouldnt approach a girl if hes only interested in her looks and isnt sure if she has a good personality.. thats bull****.. how u supposed to know her personality if u never approached?

ure probably just some girl who got dumped by ur player boyfriend so u decided to come here to screw up everyone's game.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LuvMyArmyMan

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UM, and when did the quantity outshadow quality? I really dont care how many women you've banged, that does not make you any more of a man. In fact, to some people it makes you less of a man. But thats just me.

GOD IS IT THAT DIFFICULT NOT TO BE SO STUPID????

its called a WOMANS POINT OF VIEW.

get used to it. You're gonna have to deal with it a LOT. you might have female bosses, co-workers, and OMG you might even get married one day.

No, I haven't gotten dumped by my player bf, if you bothered to ask, you'd know i'm in a LTR. I just wish men had a better grasp on what women think about relationships.

Ok, youre a misogynist. Not like i'm gonna try to change that. Its your problem that you hate women.


And Sniper, i'm glad that you were joking. But seriously, I know youre on a guys website, it just that women get that all the time, being treated like a piece of meat. I aint sayin that MEN dont get treated that way, but it seems like a popular trend to call women "b1tches" and how they're just something to be conquered. No hard feelings?
 

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im a bboy
i play piano
i listen to music all the time (various types but mostly hip hop, rap and oldskool hip hop)
i snowboard
i workout 3 times a week
i create lots of digital art and manipulate photos (photoshop)
i blackbook (graffiti on paper)
i mix music (mp3s on the computer)
i play video games
im into cars
i read books and magazines relating to my hobbies

i want to become a DJ (turntablist)
i want to workout more
i want to get into a good college
i want to learn a martial art
i want to snowboard in the rockies
i want to go to more bboy jams
i want to have a small collection of cars
 

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Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
psst...da onlyx......forget what i said. my bad.
Don't worry about it. It's all good. :)

C'mon y'all, lets not be too harsh on her. It's not like she's mystery Woman or somethin'...
 

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- I like listening to many differant types of music
- Working on my 77 Camaro and drivin it
- I like playin battlefield 1942
- I like being a man slut
- Just hangin out

- I want a 6 pack
- I want my friends ex gf
- I want to finish the bodywork on my car


- I am tired of people who think learning to play the guitar will make you cool so you can bring it to school and try and get the girls, I know LOTS of people like that, and they seem to atract more guitar guys then anything hahaha

- I am tired of school!
 

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For me it's more like hobbies of a WBAFC.

-juggling(learnt 3 balls yesterday)
-gaming(can go for hours)
-Running my weekly tech magazine
-Making web pages for money
-Walking my dog, great time to practice my DJ skills.
-DJing(the other form)
-Writing
-coming up with idea's for anything

I want to:

-Become at least a RAFC
-Snowboard
-Make a change
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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