"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The High School Relationship

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Hey sosuave.com. I've been lurking here for a week or so, reading articles and what people have to say. I figure I'd introduce myself here.

I'm 17. I'm here cuz I want to become a man (Pook). I think I have a few things going for me (smart, attractive, funny) but i think i could become a lot cooler/popular/fun/ better with the ladies. I don't want to change who I am, just my confidence and outgoingness.

So one of my goals is to have sex with every girl i think is attractive at my school (lol...I exaggerate but I think you guys understand). My question though, is if that is possible, or a good idea.

Here's the deal, I've only been in like one relationship-sorta. It was just a girl that i talked to, hung out with a few times, and we pretty quickly got to being physical, eventually having sex (my first time and hers) without ever being "officially" going out. So we had sex a few times but i don't know if we will again cuz I don't really want to get in an LTR. We're still cool but there's like a "more than friends" line that I feel I may have to cross to have sex with her again, which I don't really need anyway.

I just want to have sex with girls, not just with girls that I think are hot at parties, but also girls that I think are cool and I can talk to at school. Still, I imagine there are very few girls that will have a normal friendship with a guy + sex, especially if that guy is having sex with other girls.

What is the best way to handle being a DJ in High School? Is it to have sex with girls once? Is it to keep all sex on the downlow? Is it to say f**k it and seduce every girl no matter who thinks you're a a**hole player?

I'm probably being naive lol. But uhhh, better to ask here before going to school and gaming on every girl I fancy, right? I still have a lot of work ahead of me. I'm going to start this week by working on eye contact (following Boot Camp sorta).
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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john paul

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Dont let that kind of rap get around. Keep it on the down low for most part. Obviously you wont be able to always keep things quiet and unknown but you should be able to keep most things a secret. Yea you shouldnt be ashamed of what you do but girls will get turned off if they hear you get around.
 

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You seem in an alright position, just excel yourself in every aspect of life have your goals and ambitions and you will get the sex you desire eventually :)

p.s for me there isn't a problem with flirting with lots of girls all the time, so there shouldn't be too much of a problem for you either. Just don't go on about it all the time and you'll be fine.
 
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