"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The hello/goodbye kiss...

toddC

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Okay, so you guys all know about when your greeting a girl hello or goodbye, you get the litte peck on the cheek. Now this question may seem quite stupid but I've noticed that with the girls that are attracted to me (i've heard it from their freinds and I've goten the vibes) that they seem to kiss me closer to my lips rather than the girls that have no attraction to me. Now does this have anythign to do with how attracted to me they are or is it just coincidence?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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eggnawgkid

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Wait, so you get kisses from girls that aren't even attracted to you? How does that work?
 

LikRetsam

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I wouldn't use a "sign" like this to determine a girl's interest in me.
 
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