"Forget worrying about gold-diggers, men. It's these ladies who will find a way to make you miserable every time. The ones on the Neurotic end of the spectrum will wear you out trying to take care of them when they're sick; worry you to death with threats of suicide; make an idiot of you as you try to amuse them with silly jokes or make them feel loved with romantic gestures; persuade you spend all your time and money trying to make them happy. None of it will ever be enough. And then they will leave you for someone else, or have to go for drug or alcohol treatment, or decide that they need to be on their own for a little while."
"The Neurotic knows how to work a man's protective instincts. That's why he isn't sufficiently wary of this type of woman: she seems so despairing that he doesn't see her wayward side. He may not have had many sisters or female friends growing up, so he won't necessarily recognise the danger signals."
"It's a special type of Neurotic or Waif who is also a fatale, who learns to use sexual conquest as a temporary antidote to unhappiness. More words of caution: I'm not trying to deny the real unhappiness and depression many of these women endure. I'm just trying to say that until they've found a way to live with it, they are not good girlfriend or marriage material. And no, you should not "just" sleep with them, for if they are truly delicate, it may send them into a tail-spin, and then they may find a way to take their revenge on you that you may never forget.."
Very interesting. I realize there is some negtivity on this board but I believe for those of us who have been emotionally destroyed by these types that it is helpful for us to educate ourselves. By trying to avoid what happened and ignoring our pain it is only going to cause us more problems in the future and prevent us from being our true selves.
After an abundant amount of research and discussion with my therapists about me and my former relationship, I have come to the conclusion that not only is my ex a sociopath, but that there are many many sociopaths in our society today. These people are dangerous because they will prey on you and find a way to conquer you over time like a fvcking velociraptor. One day when that fence is not electrified they will breach you and betray you without any fvcking second thought or consideration for your feelings.
I can not even begin to imagine how many times all our little fingers have hit these little square keys on our keyboards to share our stories and experiences after having come into contact in one way shape of form with heartless people like this. It makes me sick.
I am a normal conservative individual. There is nothing wrong with me that I would rather be in a committed relationship then sleep around. Sure I am going to spend more time with several women going forward and get to know people before I commit to anything. But I am just saying.
This is a serious problem in the world that is shortening the length of mens lifespans.
