"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Health and Fitness forum will solve half your problems

lakeshore

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I really believe that working out is THE BEST thing anyone can do for

confidence
getting laid
developing LTR
feeling good about life
relieving stress
getting friends
being more of a "man"
about 100 other things.

I think half of our "girl" issues go away.

I say for every minute you're thinking about, openers, opening sets, why she didn't answer your text, etc..

you should be spending 10 minutes thinking about eating right and getting ripped. 10:1 ratio sounds about right.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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BigJimbo

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Money and using your passport is the answer. Getting ripped is for gays and guys who are stuck in America. Trust me, getting ripped is a VERY American thing. First thing an American will notice when he travels is how thin most of this world is compared to America. You don't see big buts on girls and you see tons of skinny guys. It is so bad that a medium in most countries is a small in America. Seriously. They label sizes differently.
 

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I have zero desire to be with foreign chicks. American girls are the best in the world, period
 

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That's the truth man.

This is exactly what Pook said in The Secret of the Jerk.

Working out is the best way to "become a man", not some stupid mind games.

Raise your testosterone and everything becomes much more natural then you don't need philosophies.
 

thecurtainfalls

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BigJimbo said:
Money and using your passport is the answer. Getting ripped is for gays and guys who are stuck in America. Trust me, getting ripped is a VERY American thing. First thing an American will notice when he travels is how thin most of this world is compared to America. You don't see big buts on girls and you see tons of skinny guys. It is so bad that a medium in most countries is a small in America. Seriously. They label sizes differently.
Um, how about for the actual health benefits?

Terribad post. -1 rep from me, sorry.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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BigJimbo

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lakeshore said:
I have zero desire to be with foreign chicks. American girls are the best in the world, period
Yeah, you get'em tiger! Love that attitude. We already have enough horny Western European, Middle Eastern, and American guys invading Ukraine. If only some of you knew the life we live :cool:

Health? I am sooo healthy. I feel great! I get the girls you guys jerk off to on the Net.
 

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It also smashes the looks matter/dont matter thread.

If you have a nice physique, as a guy, your face pretty much doesn't even matter..
 

Being_the_Don

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BigJimbo said:
Money and using your passport is the answer. Getting ripped is for gays and guys who are stuck in America. Trust me, getting ripped is a VERY American thing. First thing an American will notice when he travels is how thin most of this world is compared to America. You don't see big buts on girls and you see tons of skinny guys. It is so bad that a medium in most countries is a small in America. Seriously. They label sizes differently.
You must not travel much, physical fitness is more than an American thing. Seriously.
 

Just a Shot Away

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BigJimbo said:
If only some of you knew the life we live :cool:

Health? I am sooo healthy. I feel great! I get the girls you guys jerk off to on the Net.
You sound like such a retard, man. Jesus. I remember back in the day when trolls really knew how to con people...this transparent unfunny trolling of present-day is what movies like "G.I. Joe" are to action films. You're not impressing anybody by typing that you live in the Ukraine and you bang HB 10's all day, and talk about how the only nice cars in existence are in the Ukraine.

I believe I've already told you this once, but it's alarmingly obvious that you're just another chrome-domed white boy sitting in your room in your parents' house with the white picket fence stuffing your fat face full of Cheetos and soda. Give it a rest.


As for the original topic, it doesn't hurt to be in good shape....but to say that your success with women will dramatically improve is just not true. You have much more to gain in the health and longevity department than in the sex department.
 

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Just a Shot Away said:
As for the original topic, it doesn't hurt to be in good shape....but to say that your success with women will dramatically improve is just not true. You have much more to gain in the health and longevity department than in the sex department.
Agreed. Getting fit can raise testosterone levels and you reap the benefits. You will more likely get noticed more by women. Getting them, is another story. Women seem to love a healthy, fit man. There are other factors too, and I won't get into that sh*t right here.

Just a Shot Away, Get equipped with +1 rep!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yes, the mental effects of the increased testosterone levels in your body should NOT be discounted... the effects are real and measurable. On the anecdotal side, I can definitely affirm that I have felt a major difference in my mindset since I started lifting, and although that has nothing to do with how girls perceive me, it has everything to do with how I perceive them and the way I interact with my world on a daily basis.
 

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The only reason people don't see getting in shape as something that increases your chances with women tenfold is because there are so many lazy, ignorant idiots who feels self conscious and can't bear the fact that someone might be smart, pull women and have a great physique in the same packet.

So the way these slick mofos to rationalize that someone is simply better than them is to say that a physique doesn't get you women. (You can see many derogatory terms for lifters from the general population of fat slobs, unfit idiots and low IQ underachievers who can't fathom that they can't get something from doing nothing)

HF section does solve a lot of problems if you got other things going for you in life. It would probably even make you get layed more often even if you are retarded, in which case you wouldn't get women by using some scripted lines either.

I bet my left foot a well built guy with something going for him will have more success than some line spewing PUA if they approached the same number of women. What I do know is that a well built guy gets far more IoIs. Jealousy is a dangerous thing, it is dangerous to be better on all fronts than someone else :yes:

Then again, who cares about the number of women you pull.
 

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I agree with the OP. Getting ripped up helps not just to get girls, but you feel good and healthy. Im ripped myself and stay fit for my own health benefit. Doesnt hurt when chicks are eye F*ckin you too ;)
 

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lakeshore said:
I have zero desire to be with foreign chicks. American girls are the best in the world, period
lol i dunno if i would go that far but theres beautiful women all over the world. Im in NYC so i get to see alot of tourists that come here. Some of these women are smoking hot.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BigJimbo said:
It is so bad that a medium in most countries is a small in America. Seriously. They label sizes differently.
Americans are just fat. It has nothing to do with people working out more. It has everything to do with people eating too much McDonalds.
 

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Yes working out is great. Lots of health benefits, and I find it puts me in a great mental state (I'm a lot more productive). But it doesn't get you laid. I work out 3 times a week and I don't get laid.
 

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I agree with most of those things except with getting friends and developing LTRs. Seriously wtf are you talking about? I've seen plenty of guys who work out and dont have any friends, and developing LTRs... now you're really talking out of your ass.
 

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r0cky said:
I agree with most of those things except with getting friends and developing LTRs. Seriously wtf are you talking about? I've seen plenty of guys who work out and dont have any friends, and developing LTRs... now you're really talking out of your ass.
lol, no apparently working out is the answer to everything. Ugly? Work out. No money? Work out. No friends? Work out. Missing a arm? Work out the other one, one arm is a limiting belief.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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