"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The head tilt

CJDJ

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Im new to the site, but just thought id let loose on my personal tecnique: im still quite young and are probaly not as experienced as the more mature DJ but one thing i copied off a hollywood movie star always seems to get the ladies smiling and ' interested ' in you but you need to be talking to them face on it would help if your character is cheeky to blend the action in. The head tilt is when your speaking to a women and you look at them not just in the eyes but at their hair too as though you are blatantly inspecting them, it attracts them because it shows a cheekyness and 'cuteness' in a way quite similar to a puppy dog when it hears a weird sound and looks at you tilting its head. A perfect example of ' the head tilt ' is mel gibson in the lethal weapon movies and braveheart, so try watching him to get a better example, im serious it drives the ladies crazy but you do need to have the personality to go with it unless you will look like some guy on leave from a nut house, but trust me it works, good luck fellow don juaners.

CJ, England
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i am me

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nice tip man, a lil somethin extra to add to ur game
 

shiningshadow

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I like it. Just don't overdo it and always have your head tilted like a retard. :)
 

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In Braveheart, Mel Gibson's eyes are shifty because he's in love with his woman and is afraid to look into her directly. The rest of his behavior is consistent with him being a complete AFC (only when he talks to her).

I don't know about the other movies, but direct eye contact usually works better.
 

WesCottII

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Hmmm....I dunno, The head tilt is body language for submissiveness.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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