"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The handle below your name......

zzirf25

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I have just always wondered why your first handle says DJ. Shouldn't you start out AFC as far as the handle ranks go. This is just something that has intrigued me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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PiHiPlaya

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because it's the Don Juan discussion forum. I don't think the term AFC was coined until sometime after this board came out after being influenced by Doc Love's articles and David Deangelo
 

quest

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Originally posted by 007~JC
Let's get rid of the "status" thing.

It's far from accurate.

-007
true.

but who gives a damn?

-don't judge people on the ammount of posts. judge them on quality of posts.
 

Climax

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Originally posted by quest
true.

but who gives a damn?

-don't judge people on the ammount of posts. judge them on quality of posts.
dito!:up:


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