"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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the guys who hate women are sad.

frivolousz21

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really really sad.

I heard someone say they didnt trust there mom?

your MOM?

she must be a evil bytch.

u better stay away from women.....seriously get a Boyfriend..marry a man!

humans have been Man and women for a long long long long time.


and now you think your ahead of the game..

when in reality...we are still progressing more and more to family survival....Survival in every sense of the word.


have fun with men, Gentlemen.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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yea I do feel like im on drugs.....

I just damn...I mean my mom or grandma has never done anything bad towards me...never lie to me.

and guys are saying they dont trust there mom.

thats a terrible way to live
 

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Well, unfortunatelly everyone doesn't have a wonderful mom, or dad for that matter. Why do you think there are so many b!tches and jerks out there??? We are products of those who raise us, or of those who don't.
 

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Yeah I thought that was kinda jacked too but then again you have no idea what that person had gone through growing up.

Not everybody has the same child up bringing.

And just because you haven't been burned as bad as a lot of guys here don't knock him down and say woman can't lie they can always be trusted.

So you had good parents and a few good girls that you can trust and they never burned you good for you bro but don't say people on this board are really sad just because they don't trust women or their mom.

Maybe just maybe they have a really good reason not too.

A Woman is a Woman no matter what relations she might be to you.
 

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my mother was a druggie who was beaten by my father...

who beat me as well.

and she abandoned me to live with my grandma who was married to my grandpa another pile of arsehole ****.


regardless..it takes a man to overcome that shyt and realize it wasnt there fault.

just because your burned doesnt mean you cant trust people.

if you dont trust..you will never be happy with anyone.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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