"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Grover_mister

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here is somtin i am horrible with\


when ever i meet a chick usually through myspace she usally has like 3 or 4 guys on her top friends out of 10 or 15.....the chicks are usally single but problems havbe occured where these lunitics message me and say **** like," I kill u if u date her" or "SHe my girl" and stuff like that.



how do i overcome the worries of these other guys?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ViciousDADogg

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Go to VH1 website fast, find The Pickup Artist show and watch the V cast.

Notice Mystery's take on online dating. It's true. You're not even online dating, you're just giving some attention to attention wh0res.

In other words, those women have no romantic interest in you at all.


If this was for real, as in real life, face to face encounters. You wouldn't have to worry about those guys.


On myspace or a dating site? Who cares?



Here is a tip, if you want to be wasting your time there, minimize it so you live longer. Ask their phone number straight up, then call them. No talking to women who won't give you number.




Some women I ask number from have like 100 dudes posting pictures of teddy bears on her comments. Here is me, messaging her, "WHAT"S YOUR PHONE NUMBER?" Sure she might not give it. But I have 50+ rats on my friend list. I just keep cycling through them and eventually she'll get another chance in 50+ days.




P.S. Sounds like you're way lower than talking to her via IMs or email. You actually posting comments for her. Possibly some horrible sh1t, something that tics the nice guys over. We don't do that. Your status is something you don't talk about, nor try to qualify it to people.
 

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online works..
but its nothing like the chase of real life..and the euphporia that is achieved.

also if you want something serious...id try real life
 

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so ur all saying since i am the nice guy personality im ****ed...? lol


and i think i may have messed up cuz she was telling me how her ex or somtin told her she was ugly and on one of her best pics were there was no comments i wrote, "Now anyone who thinks ur ugly has to get there eyes checked cuz i see a total hottie"

lol bad or good.
 

ViciousDADogg

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Ok. BAD> ytou talked to her...


Next time don't talk to women online. She finds you interesting enough she'll give you a phone number.


Now go back there and write "I was drunk that night, partying at my place with some girl friends. Ups, hahaha, my bad. Anyway, I think your ex was right."


Then you don't talk to her for two weeks, even if she's baggin to chat with you. (won't happen).


At the end of two weeks, message her. Hey, you don't write no more. Are you still alive?


She replied with something nice then you write "HEY. WHAT"S YOUR PHONE NUMBER?"


She's rude, NEXT. Also, NEXT if she does not give you number.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DjDan said:
hit the gym and get jacked.

post a picture of yourself with a mean cold stare and showing some muscles on your facebook and no one will message you telling you not to fck with their girl.
This will not help, many guys hate the big tough guys and have worked out other strategies to bring them down.
The truth is that a young child of five can kill a big powerful Lion, if he has a loaded shotgun and is prepared to use it, if you are smart you will break the shoulders of a tough guy with a Baseball bat, if you are stupid you will just let the tough guy get the hot babe and do absolutely nothing about it.
 
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