"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Guy Friend We Met-He Buses Everywhere-Is This Ok"

joe45

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my friend wroite this

i met a guy in school before, he was good looking asian guy right, hes nice, funny ...etcand we went out, but the thing is he has no car, he buses everywhere and hes like ok with it. everytime we went out i make a big fuss about why he has no car, and when he was going to get a car. this is like after the 3rd date i started getting on his case for having no car.
how can a guy even ask a girl out without a car lol . that so embarassing. like what we going bus on a date lol hahah
he told me its a turn off and that hes never met anyone that care so much about cars and material things before.

the guy is cbc chinese hes like around 6 feet tall in univ doing graduate law school and teh girl is like in some college doing esthecian.
he says he needs no car, and busing is fine for now. oh and the cbc chinese guy is with some white girl now from what i see on campus now. hes alwasy with her. i guess he didn;t like honger girls haha
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I would say on average asian girls are more immature than white girls at any given age.

And this guy is right, it is a total turn off.
 

DarthAngel707

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the guy's in law school and will be making bank in about two years, and the girl is a complete f*cking idiot. Soundsl like he has game but the only thing is that he doesn't have a car.

In about five years he will be able to purchase a Mercedes Benz and then he can say, "Take that c*nt!"
 

jacob

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being Don Juan has nothing to do with material things. If you need a car to get a girl then what happens when you don't have one. It's all about your inner game. Youre really Don Juan if you ride a bike and can still score a girl that takes you out with her car.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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typical

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DarthAngel707 said:
the guy's in law school and will be making bank in about two years, and the girl is a complete f*cking idiot. Soundsl like he has game but the only thing is that he doesn't have a car.

In about five years he will be able to purchase a Mercedes Benz and then he can say, "Take that c*nt!"
haha lol well said :)
 
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