"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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the grecian ideal

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i found this off a site dedicated to Sandow, the father of modern body builders, ancient greeks used to follow a certain proportion and trained reguarly in their gyms, measurements were taken off roman statues of gods and the ratio is derived in this calculator...seems fairly reasonable, but looks good.

http://www.sandowmuseum.com/ideal.html
Ideal Body Measurement Calculator
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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blinkwatt

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Thanks for the link. I found that the measurements are a tad bit small. I reach almost all of them(I'm only off by 1/4 of a inch on three of them),but only feel I'm "fit" not built like I would like to be(Vin Diesel).
 
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blinkwatt said:
Thanks for the link. I found that the measurements are a tad bit small. I reach almost all of them(I'm only off by 1/4 of a inch on three of them),but only feel I'm "fit" not built like I would like to be(Vin Diesel).
hey...the greeks didn't have protein powder, did they :)
 

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Interesting, I'm going to have to guess that the Greek's weren't too fond of working their legs? My calves are 1.5 inches 'too big' and my thighs are 3 inches 'too big' :nervous: and then my chest is like 4 inches too small:cry: bi's are about 1 inch too small. I'm not sure I want my arms to be bigger than my legs though.... Someone tell those Greeks to get their squats in... :nono:

Anyone else notice this, I mean I know I had big legs but I thought they were proportionate...

PS. Never realised that my wrist is almost as big as my d!ck is....:crazy:

EDIT: Haha look at the statue, pretty sure his wrist is bigger than his.....
 
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