Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The greatest thing you've learned from SoSuave.

LinkinParkROX

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A few days ago, I caught myself reminiscing about my long lost AFC days, and how much SoSuave has helped me both, in the women department, and in the life department. It's helped me achieve a state of mind very very close to pure bliss. It's made me the dominant male in all my cliques and other sets I open, and it's just turned my life around. In fact I've never felt this amazing before. So I'm here to ask you guys, what's the single best piece of advice, the single greatest thing you've learned form SoSuave? A thread full of "best pieces of advice" would be pretty useful.

Over time when all the best advice collects here it could potentially be in the bible. So on with it! For me, it's a tie between two. The first one being that women go by feel and never by pure logic. On all of my dates, this has been proved by women saying "I just love you so much, I wanna fuck you so badly, I don't even know why I just do!" (I'm not exactly the handsomest guy around, and I am badly out of shape). And of course, the constant saying one thing and doing another. The second one, which I learned from the great Pook, is to be a man. This is probably the single best piece of advice ever. The whole fact that in today's society all the AFC men who "wait 5 hours to see a girl for 5 minutes", and who talk about their feelings with women and all that are supposed to be normal.

But the truth is, this causes zero attraction. It's basic science that women are attracted to men. Men as in, cavemen men. Real men. Not today's girly manboys. Men who stand up for what's right and what they believe in. Men who are dominant and good leaders. Not the nice guys who stay up with them talking about the jerk they're dating. Not the guys who buy them candy and roses. That's some pretty powerful stuff. Your turn.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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46and2aheadofme

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Many of the lessons learned on sosuave inherently revolve around the idea of maintaining higher value.

The most important lesson sosuave has taught me through this principle is to not invest so much in single targets, and have an utter willingness to walk away if a girl is not meeting my standards.

Me before sosuave: "Why does she seems distant and stand-offish. How can I get her to like me?"

Me after sosuave: "She is boring me with her antics. That girl over there is probably more interesting."
 

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I learned that you dont listen to a women when she tells you what she wants cause they never know what they really want. It saves a lot of trouble to dismiss all that crap they say.
 

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46and2aheadofme said:
Many of the lessons learned on sosuave inherently revolve around the idea of maintaining higher value.

The most important lesson sosuave has taught me through this principle is to not invest so much in single targets, and have an utter willingness to walk away if a girl is not meeting my standards.

Me before sosuave: "Why does she seems distant and stand-offish. How can I get her to like me?"

Me after sosuave: "She is boring me with her antics. That girl over there is probably more interesting."

Amen brother, exactly the same thing I would of said. ALWAYS have more than one girl on the go.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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