tksniper
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 13, 2023
- Messages
- 420
- Reaction score
- 674
- Age
- 42
“It’s time,” the young man thought to himself. “It’s time for me to become a Don Juan.” But of course, he knows what lies ahead of him. Painful rejections, regrets, and learning lessons. But then a magical Pook appeared in front of him and attempted to show him the “15 lessons.”. But wait, another sosuave member showed up and said “Pook, your time was 2002. Let your soul rest in peace bro. Like real talk….We don’t even use MySpace anymore. I’ll take over from this point.”
Pook: “I had 1,500 followers on MySpace. But very well young grasshopper. Leave this forum better than you found it.”
Young man: “Listen guys, no offense, I respect your reunion and all, but I just want to get laid.”
Anti-Dump: “ If you want to have success with women, then you’ll need a pen and a paper and ask her “What’s your number???.”
Tksniper: “Bro…..what?!?!? We have iPhones these days. Who even carries a pen with them to the bars/clubs anymore?”
*Anti-Dump suddenly disappears into the ether without saying a word*
Tksniper: “Alright bro, so now that the ghosts of
Sosuave’s past have finally passed and moved on, here’s what you need to learn….”
Self love is all - You cannot give what you don’t have. Have a process of self love that replenishes you everyday. It could be early morning meditation and workouts, or eating healthier and watching your weight. It could be reading business books. It could be anything that genuinely gives value to yourself. But here’s the main thing - Always do the most important things FIRST. Make a promise to yourself what you will do for that day, and DO IT. This will increase your self esteem 10 fold.
Young man: “I’m 18 years old. You’re telling me all I have to do is do my laundry in the morning and make my bed and hit the gym and somehow my life will magically change? That sounds way too simplistic broski.
Tksniper: “Foolish youth! Do you think you really need to reinvent the wheel? How did people ever make riches or get laid before you showed up with all of your complexity, theories, and confusion? The process is simple - Give value to yourself everyday. But the discipline to execute it requires ungodly commitment. But of course, you need to implement that knowledge. A lot of people are walking notepads. They listen to self improvement podcasts and take notes all day but never embody the principles. They never put their knowledge into ACTION. And this leads me to the next lesson….
Have a proactive process - Life is a process. The business of becoming the best version of yourself is a process. Success with women is a process. Success with business is a process. Success in general is a process. The key isn’t just absorbing knowledge ad nauseam. The key is being proactive and getting 1% better everyday by taking daily action. Execute the process for years and eventually you will become a master of your domain.
Young man: “Okay so far you’ve talked about self love and giving value to yourself everyday, focusing on becoming 1% better daily, and having a process of self improvement. No offense, but this sounds like business 101.”
Tksniper: “Everything is a business! Business makes the world go round. The best businesses contribute to the human ecosystem. An important fact that people forget is that……”
Success and riches depends on your ability to contribute to an ecosystem. In order to survive and even thrive in this world, you need to offer value to the human ecosystem. All animal life on this planet have an ecosystem. And anything that survives and thrives contributes to its ecosystem. If you want to discover the secrets to business, economics, and riches, study ecosystems! If you are not contributing to your immediate ecosystem, you will be weeded out of existence! Speaking of ecosystems, this leads to another universal truth…..”
Abundance comes to those who contributes the most to their ecosystem. Once you’ve
achieved self love and developed a process of daily improvement, you’ll need to actually benefit your environment. Your abundance depends on it. Having value but not giving it away is the same as not having any value at all. The world is starving for your energetic blueprint and value you have to offer. What’s the point of “improving” yourself and giving value to yourself and keeping all of that to yourself? You’ll just become a closed ecosystem, aka a black hole. A black hole is anti-life. Search within yourself and you’ll see you want to offer the best of yourself towards the human ecosystem.
Young man: “Okay, so I’m starting to get it. You’re telling me that the secret is to constantly give value to myself, have a process of daily improvement, and then sharing it with others. And then I’ll experience real abundance?”
Tksniper: “Well, kinda. I can guarantee you’ll be high status in your own niche circles. But you’re asking a very good question, so here’s the next lesson….”
Status is a dichotomy - You can appear high status to some people, but low status to others. Status is a dichotomy. This is when your frame needs to shift from “either, or” to “both, and.” You can be BOTH high status and low status, depending on who is observing you. This is when you’ll discover the magical power of wavelength.”
Young man: “Wait, so you are saying I can look like a winner and a loser at the same time?!?!! No offense, but that makes zero sense to me.”
Tksniper: “That’s because you are still coming from the frame of “either, or” and not “both, and” young grasshopper. Birds of a feather flies together. Haven’t you ever heard of that phrase? Your energetic vibration is going to vibe with people on similar wavelengths. But it might repel others. Not everyone is going to get your jig young grasshopper.”
Young man: “Ahhh I see….You know what, I think I’m starting to get it. I need to give love and value to myself on a daily basis. I need to have a process of how I can achieve that. And I’m part of a social ecosystem of give and take. But not everyone will vibe with me. Not everyone is going to resonate with my vibe. But that’s okay because I’ll find my tribe.”
Tksniper: “Ahh yes. You are finally starting to get it. But here’s the final lesson….”
Abundance is win/win - The frame of give and take is kind of limited. Think of it more as win/win. Give and take is more like a banker giving out a loan and expecting a return with interest. This is unfortunately most of humanity’s frame when it comes to romance. And it usually ends in divorce and heartbreak. Win/win is a better frame. It aligns with abundance. And having an abundance mindset aligns you to life itself and the infinite possibilities.
Young man: “Thank you Tksniper whoever you are. You really helped me understand the dynamics of romance, life, and abundance.
Say, do you think I can add you on instagram?”
Tksniper: “…….”
Pook: “I had 1,500 followers on MySpace. But very well young grasshopper. Leave this forum better than you found it.”
Young man: “Listen guys, no offense, I respect your reunion and all, but I just want to get laid.”
Anti-Dump: “ If you want to have success with women, then you’ll need a pen and a paper and ask her “What’s your number???.”
Tksniper: “Bro…..what?!?!? We have iPhones these days. Who even carries a pen with them to the bars/clubs anymore?”
*Anti-Dump suddenly disappears into the ether without saying a word*
Tksniper: “Alright bro, so now that the ghosts of
Sosuave’s past have finally passed and moved on, here’s what you need to learn….”
Self love is all - You cannot give what you don’t have. Have a process of self love that replenishes you everyday. It could be early morning meditation and workouts, or eating healthier and watching your weight. It could be reading business books. It could be anything that genuinely gives value to yourself. But here’s the main thing - Always do the most important things FIRST. Make a promise to yourself what you will do for that day, and DO IT. This will increase your self esteem 10 fold.
Young man: “I’m 18 years old. You’re telling me all I have to do is do my laundry in the morning and make my bed and hit the gym and somehow my life will magically change? That sounds way too simplistic broski.
Tksniper: “Foolish youth! Do you think you really need to reinvent the wheel? How did people ever make riches or get laid before you showed up with all of your complexity, theories, and confusion? The process is simple - Give value to yourself everyday. But the discipline to execute it requires ungodly commitment. But of course, you need to implement that knowledge. A lot of people are walking notepads. They listen to self improvement podcasts and take notes all day but never embody the principles. They never put their knowledge into ACTION. And this leads me to the next lesson….
Have a proactive process - Life is a process. The business of becoming the best version of yourself is a process. Success with women is a process. Success with business is a process. Success in general is a process. The key isn’t just absorbing knowledge ad nauseam. The key is being proactive and getting 1% better everyday by taking daily action. Execute the process for years and eventually you will become a master of your domain.
Young man: “Okay so far you’ve talked about self love and giving value to yourself everyday, focusing on becoming 1% better daily, and having a process of self improvement. No offense, but this sounds like business 101.”
Tksniper: “Everything is a business! Business makes the world go round. The best businesses contribute to the human ecosystem. An important fact that people forget is that……”
Success and riches depends on your ability to contribute to an ecosystem. In order to survive and even thrive in this world, you need to offer value to the human ecosystem. All animal life on this planet have an ecosystem. And anything that survives and thrives contributes to its ecosystem. If you want to discover the secrets to business, economics, and riches, study ecosystems! If you are not contributing to your immediate ecosystem, you will be weeded out of existence! Speaking of ecosystems, this leads to another universal truth…..”
Abundance comes to those who contributes the most to their ecosystem. Once you’ve
achieved self love and developed a process of daily improvement, you’ll need to actually benefit your environment. Your abundance depends on it. Having value but not giving it away is the same as not having any value at all. The world is starving for your energetic blueprint and value you have to offer. What’s the point of “improving” yourself and giving value to yourself and keeping all of that to yourself? You’ll just become a closed ecosystem, aka a black hole. A black hole is anti-life. Search within yourself and you’ll see you want to offer the best of yourself towards the human ecosystem.
Young man: “Okay, so I’m starting to get it. You’re telling me that the secret is to constantly give value to myself, have a process of daily improvement, and then sharing it with others. And then I’ll experience real abundance?”
Tksniper: “Well, kinda. I can guarantee you’ll be high status in your own niche circles. But you’re asking a very good question, so here’s the next lesson….”
Status is a dichotomy - You can appear high status to some people, but low status to others. Status is a dichotomy. This is when your frame needs to shift from “either, or” to “both, and.” You can be BOTH high status and low status, depending on who is observing you. This is when you’ll discover the magical power of wavelength.”
Young man: “Wait, so you are saying I can look like a winner and a loser at the same time?!?!! No offense, but that makes zero sense to me.”
Tksniper: “That’s because you are still coming from the frame of “either, or” and not “both, and” young grasshopper. Birds of a feather flies together. Haven’t you ever heard of that phrase? Your energetic vibration is going to vibe with people on similar wavelengths. But it might repel others. Not everyone is going to get your jig young grasshopper.”
Young man: “Ahhh I see….You know what, I think I’m starting to get it. I need to give love and value to myself on a daily basis. I need to have a process of how I can achieve that. And I’m part of a social ecosystem of give and take. But not everyone will vibe with me. Not everyone is going to resonate with my vibe. But that’s okay because I’ll find my tribe.”
Tksniper: “Ahh yes. You are finally starting to get it. But here’s the final lesson….”
Abundance is win/win - The frame of give and take is kind of limited. Think of it more as win/win. Give and take is more like a banker giving out a loan and expecting a return with interest. This is unfortunately most of humanity’s frame when it comes to romance. And it usually ends in divorce and heartbreak. Win/win is a better frame. It aligns with abundance. And having an abundance mindset aligns you to life itself and the infinite possibilities.
Young man: “Thank you Tksniper whoever you are. You really helped me understand the dynamics of romance, life, and abundance.
Say, do you think I can add you on instagram?”
Tksniper: “…….”
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