"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ALPHAROMEO

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STUDENT i am Ugly i m gonaa be blown off by all the women

PUA you don t telegraph any sexual inEtErst you just ak where the station is

STUDENT what do i say after i asked where the station is ?
P you get out your town map and you make it a bit complicated for her with more questions like " where are we now "

S how about if i m shaking with fear ?
P you just asking for directions rite ?
P during the convo you can say you re visiting flats and you have this appointenent at 16 H with this landlord guy

before you leave you thank HER for her help , produce a bit ' paper tear it into 2 parts and say ' you ve been very friendly i ll give you my details and then give the other piece to her with the pen

S how about ****y and funny ?
P when if she happens to make a funny comment , don t hesitate to humor her also but don t feel you have to !!! but this is not miseryland so if you want to show a bit of your personality , by all means to that !!afere all you re not a robot


there s nothing weird about asking for directions it s toally CONCRUENT or CREDIBLE
CONCRUENCE is the key or ROOTING or CREDIBILITY

I m sure if you look back on your life ? i m sure you ve asked for directions many times without feeling any anxiety


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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ALPHAROMEO

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you guys you are so conservative

who gives a **** about the quality of the ENGLISH,

What matters is the message !!!!!


i feel i am back to school again facing old hat conservative teachers

by the way FRENCH is my first language that might xplain some of my mistakes
 

BigWillyStyle

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Yeah, I gather english isn't your mother tongue. I wasn't trying to be a d!ck. But the point is that no-one on here comprehends your post.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ALPHAROMEO said:
you guys you are so conservative
No, we aren´t. We are only lazy, because we don´t want to use an idiot --> english dictionary to understand your posts.

ALPHAROMEO said:
who gives a **** about the quality of the ENGLISH,
Outside of France? Let me guess... everybody?

ALPHAROMEO said:
What matters is the message !!!!!
jeh, ju ár rájt!

ALPHAROMEO said:
i feel i am back to school again facing old hat conservative teachers
Facing your old conservative english-teacher - a couple of times a week - would make sense...

ALPHAROMEO said:
by the way FRENCH is my first language that might xplain some of my mistakes
By the way, if I were you I wouldn´t tattoo this sentence on my forehead. Some peolpe have prejudice against Frenchmen. And maybe not without any cause. :D
 
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