“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The great threat of technology

everywomanshero

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I was talking to someone recently and I realized this person had no genuine contact with anyone, ever. It makes me wonder how many people fall into this situation since "modern living" has made it so easy to avoid face to face contact.

Putting the pieces together this guy 1) Works doing phone based work from a cubicle so he never deals with anyone face to face. Im not even sure if they have weekly meetings or anything, it sounded like the only time he ever saw a supervisor was if there was a complaint. 2) Looks for women at dating sites. Again, avoids the face to face component of initially meeting. 3) When I asked if he paid bills online, I think he knew I was going to suggest something awful... the need for face to face contact with people.

It's very difficult to realize your vibe, the relational aspects of human communication over a damn telephone. People need to be in face to face situations, to really get a sense for how you mesh with others. I dare say that if one finds his entire life is engulfed in technologies, it is high time to begin making significant changes.

There is a real world out there, but nowdays it would be easy to structure one's life to avoid it, without even putting much thought into it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If you think that's bad now, just wait for the japanese to keep advancing in robotics to make fembots. In fact, I think they might be right around the corner.
 

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Nygard said:
If you think that's bad now, just wait for the japanese to keep advancing in robotics to make fembots. In fact, I think they might be right around the corner.
URL please.

Just kidding, but I've seen some very realistic fembots from over there. I sure hope they can cook and clean.
 

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this thread reminds me of that South Korean couple who let their infant daughter die while they were playing a video game... in which they were raising a virtual baby!

This shi.t really shocked me at the time and it makes me wonder where our society is heading.

Notice in the second paragraph: they met each other online...
 

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This is a good post.

In the modern world, I think this happens to all of us to some extent.

I've given up on online dating partly for this reason (partly also since for me it's not as efficient, time wise).

I also don't have facebook or myspace, so I am perhaps a bit ahead of the pack.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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JustLurk

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I would have thought a person whose job is talking to people would be good at talking to people...

The technological addiction part is pretty bad, though. Fb is not too terrible in my opinion, but things like 24/7 WoW addictions can really f your life up.
 
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