"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Great Picture Debate

Gray The Prince

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Okay SoSuave, this has been talked about in the past I believe, but I would like to bring up a debate about this.

Should Pictures be required on SoSuave?

Whether it's a photo avy or a photo in your OP and aside from that, should a picture of the HB you banged also be required? Also, should pictures be required in the Health and Fitness forums as well? Especially for workout progression.

As you can obviously tell and (judging by one of my past threads) I am pro-pictures. Here are some of the pros:


Pros-
Reduces Troll Activity (Though I must admit, trolls bring lots and lots of lulz)
Allows for CONSTRUCTIVE criticism
Also has potential for lulz
Can help reduce insecurities


I'm very sure there are many many more pros, but those are to name a few.

And due to the fact that this is a DEBATE, I would like to see cons as well.


And can we PLEASE keep this clean. :whistle:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Nimm

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You don`t see this proposal comeing back to bite you in the a$$ one day??

*Fastforward 2 years, random feminst site picks this up. "Devious pro-man forum view women as objects, learning young men to post pictures of "weekend lays" "

Sure, you might delete photos you upload to various sites.. however you have google etc... that catches/stores this material. Rule of the thumb, anything you put on the internet is like herpes, it doesn`t go away.
 

Just a Shot Away

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Ok well, first off you don't even have a profile picture. What gives?

Decreases troll activity? No way. It's not like there's any way to verify that you are actually the person in the pictures being posted. I don't know about reducing insecurities, but from what you said about pictures being good for "lulz" it doesn't sound like it would help with constructive criticism OR reducing people's insecurities at all.

I AM however in favor of requiring a picture to be posted if you're going to preach about how much looks matter/how easy it is to get laid if you have a symmetrical face, though.
 

Mantis Toboggan

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Agreed with the other two guys.

Just doesn't seem necessary. I don't need a past, present, or future acquaintance seeing my picture on here and then going through my problems or advice.

If you need constructive criticism, then post your picture. If you don't, then don't. I'm happy with how I look, so having some random dudes on the internet find random things wrong with me would just be an annoyance. Because I didn't ask for their opinion.

And as far as getting rid of trolls... it won't, because who can prove when a picture is real or not?

The site is fine as-is. The guys with a desire to post their pics have the freedom to do so. And the guys who don't, aren't obligated to. Everyone's happy.
 
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