Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

The Graduate

Deep Dish

Master Don Juan
Nov 25, 2002
Reaction score
Not very long ago I graduated college with a bachelor's degree, after six and a half years. Leading up to graduation, the ladies became excited for me, and of course so did everyone else. It has seemed my "market value" with the ladies instantly doubled, whatever, significantly increased; but it's only been less than two weeks so really I can not say how things will hold up but it looks good.

I have a friend who is about 29/30, very charming, handsome, a Don Juan to the ladies, but he says no ladies will touch him because he has never gone to college. He was a model, break dancer/cheerleader guy for the Chicago Bulls, danced on a cruise ship, but he retired from that and now works in a restaurant as a food runner. He was somewhat a himbo back in the day but the good times are now long gone.

On the other hand I have another masterful Don Juan friend of about the same age who has made much out of himself and of course he can't keep the ladies off him.

So, for all the men out there who graduated college, how do your post-graduated years compare to your pre-graduated years, in terms of dating?

For all the men out there who are absent of higher education, how has that affected dating?


Do not subscribe to The SoSuave Newsletter unless you are already a chick magnet!

The information in each issue is too powerful for most guys to handle. If you are an ordinary guy, it is not for you. It is meant for the elite few – not the unwashed masses.


If you think you can handle it...

If you already have girls calling you at all hours of the day and night, showing up at your door, throwing themselves at you everywhere you go...

Then sign up below.

But if you're just an average Joe, an ordinary guy, no one special – and wish to continue being so – then skip this. It's too much power for you.


Senior Don Juan
Aug 18, 2004
Reaction score
Doesn't make a difference at all ... plus being in college, most people find a lot more opportunities there than in the working world. Unless you work with a lot of young single women ...

By the way, how's orlando going for ya? I'm finding it dry.

6 1/2 years ... were you going to U Can't Finish? :)

Rollo Tomassi

Master Don Juan
Oct 4, 2004
Reaction score
It all depends on what you got your degree in and how people perceive it.

However the iron law of gender still holds true today: As women age their sexual value declines while a man's increases with age. The older a man is (generally) the more access he has to status, wealth, maturity, accomplishment - all manifestations of women's conditions for intimacy. As a woman ages her looks and appeal decline - a man's single condition for intimacy.

For his age, your friend hasn't achieved the status expected of him from the opposite sex in regards to his ability to provide for their security (a woman's primary drive), which is what women looking to cash their chips in at 28 or 29 are eager to get as they know they'll need to lock a guy in before their looks aren't comparable to 22 year old women.

Men see women as sex objects, women see men as success objects. Enjoy your new found appeal, just remember that at around 33-35 you will be at your peak marketability. Don't committ to any chick before this. Don't sell yourself out.

cave dweller

Master Don Juan
Aug 1, 2004
Reaction score
game plan


It gets better after college.


Because now you are no longer a student with a dream, but, a real live 'bread winner' with a career, an incomeand obtainable goals.

Once you get a solid income, with a future and remain single you are in total control and the women pick up on this.

Work on you financial base and your hobbies and it will all fall into place.

Like I told one girl.

"I am into markets."

She said 'Markets?"

I said.

"Yea, markets, you know,
flea market
farmers market
antique market
real estate market
stock market."

Needless to say she let me 'ride her' for a couple of years.

cave dweller


Senior Don Juan
Sep 29, 2001
Reaction score
I like this part:

Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
Enjoy your new found appeal, just remember that at around 33-35 you will be at your peak marketability. Don't committ to any chick before this. Don't sell yourself out.
Your priorities will definitely change from the study-life to the work life. Embrace work in the sense that you have an ambition to move up. Sure, the dating scene changes but remember that better job/work = more women will eye you. Besides, in club/social scenes the first questions they ask you are "what do you do for a living."
Read the 22 Rules for Massive Success with Women. Everything you need to know to become a huge success with women. And it's free!


Senior Don Juan
Feb 3, 2001
Reaction score
Congratulations Monsieur ...

Im in the process as well , this is my last year being a medic student .