Some of you have come here by mere chance, others because you wanted to develop a far greater game. Others have come because they have no one else to turn to and they are so full of questions; and even still a few others come to be taught the things they were unable to learn because no one gave them the eyes to see the lessons given to them. This site becomes a tool and a forum for its users, we use it to brag, to teach, to learn, to preach, and even learn the woman's speak. But an odd topic I have noticed comes up now and again. Its the question of happiness, you find that once women are no longer such a impossible challenge, your minds shift else where to find a more meaningful exsistance.
Each person has their own evolution, they develop at different speeds and cultivate different abilities. We pursue our own goals of personal "perfection." Some impossible, others not. So how does one attain the pinnacle of their personal evolution. Well I'm just smug enough to suggest how.
1. Develop the philosphy that is you. Every person sees the world in different ways, each develops they're own understanding of how things work. Adopt what belief's allow to best coexsist in this world, and develop them so that you can have something that few do. Peace of mind.
2. Phyiscall fitness. No one commands you to look like Brad Pitt or any of those dandy fopps. But I will say this, the body is a temple. If you let it fall into disuse and disrepair how much fun can it be to reside there? So I suggest maintain a level of fitness that makes you comfortable and happy with yourself, and someone else's sense of vanity.
3. Your image. How we carry ourselves tells the world how we should be treated. Act meek and effeminate and someone will hand you a purse. Act bold, confident and with logic and someone will hand you the keys to the executive office. A result of how you carry yourself is how you will feel when you "look yourself in the mirror." If you are want to you want to be then you will be happy when you see yourself.
4. Your hobbies. Look at the yuppies around you and the PC freaks who live in fear of offending anyone or thinking outside the box. They try to fill other people's lives with meaningless "structure." I have always failed to see why its important to attend modern "art" shows or be an activist for whatever cause that senile Suzanne Sarandon is championing for a week. These things are not astetically pleasing to me, they do not enrich my life. For most of you I think you would agree that people will try to fill your time with structure.(Example: Your GF thinks that poetry classes will bring you closer together, when you could just spend sometime sitting on your couch together sipping wine and telling each other what qualites make them special.) Your hobbies should be just that, your hobbies. Do the things that enrich your life and make you a better person.
5. The woman you are after. Once you have sown your wild oates, you will probably want to find a woman of substance.(I'm assuming this because unlike most guys I don't mind the fact of going between one LTR to another.) The woman of substance you are after is one that is NOT just like you. In fact she should be different, but like minded enough to enjoy the things that you already enjoy. Sharing the same hobbies or music doesn't mean a thing, being able to share enjoy each other differences and similarities is much more gratifying.
How this applies to the women you will be making projects of.(I'll keep this short and sweet, because that's how it should be.) So I offer it to you in these "Laws."
1. Emotion is the enemy of DJ logic. If you can't think straight you can't deal with the initial games that women will throw at you. Save the emotions for those LTRs.
2. Do not go back to an ex. This was covered in the "Don Juan Pledge."
3. Do not let your ex come back to you. Just in case you thought you could use semantics to get around number 2.
4. Men and women are not equal. If they were then nice guys would get laid and there wouldn't be an need to develop advantages over a woman's natural skill to play games.
5. Never let a woman know what you are truely thinking. Stay an unpredictable mystery and you will find you stay on your mind.
6. Challenge yourself to treat even the most beautiful woman for what they really are, just everyday people.
7. When there is doubt, there is no doubt. If you think a girl is fooling around on you she probably is.
8. Play it like you've got nothing to lose, because you don't. But let her know she has everything to lose by letting her know just how valuable you are.
9. Confidence in yourself is the first step towards success, the last step is to continue to show your confidence in your deeds.
10. Perception is truth. It doesn't matter that you were a band in geek in high school. If act like you are the man, and other precieve this then they will have no reason to doubt you are the man.
11. Adapt. Never stop adapting, never stop learning and you will never stop improving your game and yourself.
12. Never deny who you are. You are a player and your purpose is to have as much fun as you want and to do it in style. It is not wrong to have your fun, but do it with style so that you maintain your class.
Well thats it. Use it as you like.
-Grey Fox
Each person has their own evolution, they develop at different speeds and cultivate different abilities. We pursue our own goals of personal "perfection." Some impossible, others not. So how does one attain the pinnacle of their personal evolution. Well I'm just smug enough to suggest how.
1. Develop the philosphy that is you. Every person sees the world in different ways, each develops they're own understanding of how things work. Adopt what belief's allow to best coexsist in this world, and develop them so that you can have something that few do. Peace of mind.
2. Phyiscall fitness. No one commands you to look like Brad Pitt or any of those dandy fopps. But I will say this, the body is a temple. If you let it fall into disuse and disrepair how much fun can it be to reside there? So I suggest maintain a level of fitness that makes you comfortable and happy with yourself, and someone else's sense of vanity.
3. Your image. How we carry ourselves tells the world how we should be treated. Act meek and effeminate and someone will hand you a purse. Act bold, confident and with logic and someone will hand you the keys to the executive office. A result of how you carry yourself is how you will feel when you "look yourself in the mirror." If you are want to you want to be then you will be happy when you see yourself.
4. Your hobbies. Look at the yuppies around you and the PC freaks who live in fear of offending anyone or thinking outside the box. They try to fill other people's lives with meaningless "structure." I have always failed to see why its important to attend modern "art" shows or be an activist for whatever cause that senile Suzanne Sarandon is championing for a week. These things are not astetically pleasing to me, they do not enrich my life. For most of you I think you would agree that people will try to fill your time with structure.(Example: Your GF thinks that poetry classes will bring you closer together, when you could just spend sometime sitting on your couch together sipping wine and telling each other what qualites make them special.) Your hobbies should be just that, your hobbies. Do the things that enrich your life and make you a better person.
5. The woman you are after. Once you have sown your wild oates, you will probably want to find a woman of substance.(I'm assuming this because unlike most guys I don't mind the fact of going between one LTR to another.) The woman of substance you are after is one that is NOT just like you. In fact she should be different, but like minded enough to enjoy the things that you already enjoy. Sharing the same hobbies or music doesn't mean a thing, being able to share enjoy each other differences and similarities is much more gratifying.
How this applies to the women you will be making projects of.(I'll keep this short and sweet, because that's how it should be.) So I offer it to you in these "Laws."
1. Emotion is the enemy of DJ logic. If you can't think straight you can't deal with the initial games that women will throw at you. Save the emotions for those LTRs.
2. Do not go back to an ex. This was covered in the "Don Juan Pledge."
3. Do not let your ex come back to you. Just in case you thought you could use semantics to get around number 2.
4. Men and women are not equal. If they were then nice guys would get laid and there wouldn't be an need to develop advantages over a woman's natural skill to play games.
5. Never let a woman know what you are truely thinking. Stay an unpredictable mystery and you will find you stay on your mind.
6. Challenge yourself to treat even the most beautiful woman for what they really are, just everyday people.
7. When there is doubt, there is no doubt. If you think a girl is fooling around on you she probably is.
8. Play it like you've got nothing to lose, because you don't. But let her know she has everything to lose by letting her know just how valuable you are.
9. Confidence in yourself is the first step towards success, the last step is to continue to show your confidence in your deeds.
10. Perception is truth. It doesn't matter that you were a band in geek in high school. If act like you are the man, and other precieve this then they will have no reason to doubt you are the man.
11. Adapt. Never stop adapting, never stop learning and you will never stop improving your game and yourself.
12. Never deny who you are. You are a player and your purpose is to have as much fun as you want and to do it in style. It is not wrong to have your fun, but do it with style so that you maintain your class.
Well thats it. Use it as you like.
-Grey Fox
