"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Girl with a BF

dre007

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Ok, so for the past few weeks I've been gaming other chicks to get my mind off my oneitis when I run into a cute HB 7.5, we hit it off ok but I findout that she has a bf and they are having problems. she says that she hates him and he's a douche and she is interested in me, all the IOIs are there, but I don't think she is ready to let go of him yet.

I am trying to avoid being an emotional tampon of hers. I change the subject everytime her bf comes up in the conversation and I try to ignore it. however, it just gets me mad whenever she says how much she hates him, but is afraid to ditch him because the loss is "too great for her". I want to ditch this chick but I'm also up for a challenge and I don't get too emotionally attached too easily. would there be a strategy to use to game chicks that r interested in u with bfs?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dre007 said:
Ok, so for the past few weeks I've been gaming other chicks to get my mind off my oneitis when I run into a cute HB 7.5, we hit it off ok but I findout that she has a bf and they are having problems. she says that she hates him and he's a douche and she is interested in me, all the IOIs are there, but I don't think she is ready to let go of him yet.

I am trying to avoid being an emotional tampon of hers. I change the subject everytime her bf comes up in the conversation and I try to ignore it. however, it just gets me mad whenever she says how much she hates him, but is afraid to ditch him because the loss is "too great for her". I want to ditch this chick but I'm also up for a challenge and I don't get too emotionally attached too easily. would there be a strategy to use to game chicks that r interested in u with bfs?
There's rules to this sh*t.

1. Don't try to outmuscle him-shows insecurity and desperation that you really want this girl.:nono:

2. Use a BF destroyer. Change the subject or suggest that he take YOU & THE GIRL out to dinner or serve you both breakfast in bed.

3. Emotional tampon...you ain't doing that sh*t. Good job. NEVER BECOME THIS OR YOU"LL GO TO THE FRIEND ZONE! DO NOT COLLECT 200 PU**Y POINTS!!!

4. Show that you're more attractive than that A**hole BF.

5. Keep her off that topic of her bf or ex bf. Lay your foot down if you must. Don't forget to kino!

6. If you get the girl to leave her bf for you. You must keep the attraction going, or else someone can EASILY come along and steal your newly acquired girl.

GOOD LUCK!!! I can't give you a get out of friend zone free card.
 
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dre007 said:
I run into a cute HB 7.5
Thats an oxi-moron if I've ever heard one.


IF she is not an 8 or 9 then its not worth the hassle, date somebody else.
 
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