"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Girl with a BF

dre007

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Ok, so for the past few weeks I've been gaming other chicks to get my mind off my oneitis when I run into a cute HB 7.5, we hit it off ok but I findout that she has a bf and they are having problems. she says that she hates him and he's a douche and she is interested in me, all the IOIs are there, but I don't think she is ready to let go of him yet.

I am trying to avoid being an emotional tampon of hers. I change the subject everytime her bf comes up in the conversation and I try to ignore it. however, it just gets me mad whenever she says how much she hates him, but is afraid to ditch him because the loss is "too great for her". I want to ditch this chick but I'm also up for a challenge and I don't get too emotionally attached too easily. would there be a strategy to use to game chicks that r interested in u with bfs?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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dre007 said:
Ok, so for the past few weeks I've been gaming other chicks to get my mind off my oneitis when I run into a cute HB 7.5, we hit it off ok but I findout that she has a bf and they are having problems. she says that she hates him and he's a douche and she is interested in me, all the IOIs are there, but I don't think she is ready to let go of him yet.

I am trying to avoid being an emotional tampon of hers. I change the subject everytime her bf comes up in the conversation and I try to ignore it. however, it just gets me mad whenever she says how much she hates him, but is afraid to ditch him because the loss is "too great for her". I want to ditch this chick but I'm also up for a challenge and I don't get too emotionally attached too easily. would there be a strategy to use to game chicks that r interested in u with bfs?
There's rules to this sh*t.

1. Don't try to outmuscle him-shows insecurity and desperation that you really want this girl.:nono:

2. Use a BF destroyer. Change the subject or suggest that he take YOU & THE GIRL out to dinner or serve you both breakfast in bed.

3. Emotional tampon...you ain't doing that sh*t. Good job. NEVER BECOME THIS OR YOU"LL GO TO THE FRIEND ZONE! DO NOT COLLECT 200 PU**Y POINTS!!!

4. Show that you're more attractive than that A**hole BF.

5. Keep her off that topic of her bf or ex bf. Lay your foot down if you must. Don't forget to kino!

6. If you get the girl to leave her bf for you. You must keep the attraction going, or else someone can EASILY come along and steal your newly acquired girl.

GOOD LUCK!!! I can't give you a get out of friend zone free card.
 
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dre007 said:
I run into a cute HB 7.5
Thats an oxi-moron if I've ever heard one.


IF she is not an 8 or 9 then its not worth the hassle, date somebody else.
 
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