The girl who rejected me asked many questions

[turing47]

Hello, I made thread long time ago. https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/asking-her-out-second-time.247452/

Today I was at party and she was also there. I was not talking her like 5 months so I did not bother to talk. However, while I was chatting with my friends she touch my arm from my back and said hi. We are living in the same dormitory. I moved here like 2 months ago and I am pretty sure she knows it. However, she asked me where I am living and when I said the name of the dorm she acted like suprised, she told me I am also living here. There is also one party at next week in the dorm. She directly asked me if I am going to that party, and I said yes, she also said I am going there look to see me. She also asked many question which I don't remember right now, because I was drunk. So, my question is how should behave at the dorm party. I am planning to give her kino and try to kiss her. Because I don't have any feelings toward her anymore.

 

[Spaz]

No feelings for her yet you've wrote plenty abt her and what you should do with her...

This post was in October, if it's of any relevance, I'll post my thoughts.

Ignore her until she escalates by approaching you. Even then play it cool and distant, setting the perception of high value in ur favor.

If she doesn't approach then continue as per normal = ignoring her.

Focus on ur studies, activities etc.

Women r last on ur to do list.

 

[lamath]

If she rejected you, i agree with Spaz mostly ignore her, socialize and have fun.
dont go there with hope of hooking up with her.

Its funny how lots of people cant see their action for what it is, ofc you have feeling for her.
Dont let it cloud your action. And dont forget lots of women to hook up with in college.

Also dont forget she approach you once she will again if she is really interested.
Next time dont wait for an other time/party to try and hook up with her,the best time is always now.
Get her alone somewhere they go for it, go show her your dorm or something then capitalize
You have no idea on how many time i knew a women was into me, but decided to wait a until an other time because i was an insecure beta.
More often then not it did not turn out the way i wanted.

GL

 

[turing47]

No feelings for her yet you've wrote plenty abt her and what you should do with her...

This post was in October, if it's of any relevance, I'll post my thoughts.

Ignore her until she escalates by approaching you. Even then play it cool and distant, setting the perception of high value in ur favor.

If she doesn't approach then continue as per normal = ignoring her.

Focus on ur studies, activities etc.

Women r last on ur to do list.

Hello Spaz. I did not go to party with her and I was quite distant. Then, one day she messaged me "we should meet for once, I'll make a dinner and share with you and also another day you can make a dinner and invite me haha..." I said why not, but told her to go first. While I was waiting, when I saw her at college we were chatting, and one day I asked her if she has any plans at night. She answered a bit late I do, why? I said I was going to invite her to some place, then she sent a voice message asked me the place. I did not reply. I have never seen that kind girl in my life. She haven't invited me yet tho.

 

[turing47]

If she rejected you, i agree with Spaz mostly ignore her, socialize and have fun.
dont go there with hope of hooking up with her.

Its funny how lots of people cant see their action for what it is, ofc you have feeling for her.
Dont let it cloud your action. And dont forget lots of women to hook up with in college.

Also dont forget she approach you once she will again if she is really interested.
Next time dont wait for an other time/party to try and hook up with her,the best time is always now.
Get her alone somewhere they go for it, go show her your dorm or something then capitalize
You have no idea on how many time i knew a women was into me, but decided to wait a until an other time because i was an insecure beta.
More often then not it did not turn out the way i wanted.

GL

Yes, I think I still have feelings. The same thing happened again.

 

[lamath]

Dont ask her out again, she is playing with you.
Also dont give her any attention that what she wants.
Next time she txt you best thing to do is not anwser or anwser with something real short
Dont ever txt more than her ratio should be like 3 txt from her 1 from you

 

[Spaz]

Hello Spaz. I did not go to party with her and I was quite distant. Then, one day she messaged me "we should meet for once, I'll make a dinner and share with you and also another day you can make a dinner and invite me haha..." I said why not, but told her to go first. While I was waiting, when I saw her at college we were chatting, and one day I asked her if she has any plans at night. She answered a bit late I do, why? I said I was going to invite her to some place, then she sent a voice message asked me the place. I did not reply. I have never seen that kind girl in my life. She haven't invited me yet tho.

I wouldn't have answered why not...

I would however hv stated (on me cooking 4 her) that it depends...1st let me taste the quality of ur cooking.

There's a difference.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Dont ask her out again, she is playing with you.
Also dont give her any attention that what she wants.
Next time she txt you best thing to do is not anwser or anwser with something real short
Dont ever txt more than her ratio should be like 3 txt from her 1 from you

The golden ratio allows 2 of yours for 3 of their.

 

[lamath]

heheh was just a guess

I dont like txting, i find it time consuming

 

[mrgoodstuff]

heheh was just a guess

I dont like txting, i find it time consuming

I dont either. If you dont like it dont do it.