"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The girl likes me but wont go out?

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Keyboard doesn\t work properly, so this will be a bit of a weird post.

This girl likes me, but when I say...@Hey, let us go out friday@.. She is like, @Yeah...!!... Well,... MAYYYBE..@ Then she seems a bit hesistant.

I mean her friends ask me stuff about sexual situations what is happening in this situation and what I would do, if I like erotic movies, she makes that sexy whistle sound when I walk, ask me if I like this or that girl, if I met that girl again, she and her friends calls me cute and cool nicknames, like my shortened name with an added @boy@ or @man@. Stuff like that. I take it relatively cool and enjoy it.

But she doesn\t seem to want to go out? Or, I think she want to, but she doesn\t. What is happening???
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

DarkShade

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Sure she isn't attached to anyone? Maybe she's just an AW/flirt who gets her jollies out of leading people on? Or maybe she's intimidated by the idea of doing something adults do, like go out and enjoy others' company.

Tried giving her less attention and see if she magnetizes right back to you?
 

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There could be a number of reasons..such as personal reasons, school, parents not allowing her out etc..

she could be playing hard to get..or she could be an AW like DarkShade said, just being a tease and use you for attention to feel better about themselves.

But remember..all of these are just EXCUSES!

If she really likes you and wants to go out with you she'll go out with you no matter how busy/how strict her parents are/how WHATEVER she is.

What I would do in this situation is to just keep my options open. Flirt with other girls (even if you don't like them) and make sure this one knows about it. Be seen with other girls and that you are having a good time. Never focus all your energy on one girl..no matter how pretty or special she is.

This is just my advice..I don't know the whole story here so I may be wrong.
 

Poonani Maker

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surfdog said:
What I would do in this situation is to just keep my options open. Flirt with other girls (even if you don't like them) and make sure this one knows about it. Be seen with other girls and that you are having a good time. Never focus all your energy on one girl..no matter how pretty or special she is.

This is just my advice..I don't know the whole story here so I may be wrong.
Ditto on that. Jealousy is like a giant space occupier in the frontal lobe of the female brain. They're so weak, women are, and can't think for themselves, so they like to have others make their decisions for them, thus if you haven't got any Visible action circulating from other women then you don't have a chance at nailing the one you Really want.
 
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