the girl i like want's me to have drinks on sat

[Packers2010]

You want her back? Ok. GO with a hot girl friend and be affectionate so that your 7yearlove will get jealous. Girls get jealous very easily. If you pull this off, she will get jealous, develop feelings for you, dump her bf, and get with you. I'm being completely serious. This will work. But what I wrote was really optimistic and the reality is that you've known this girl for 7 years and haven't gotten with her so that means you are really scared of her.

the thing is. i don't want her back. i'm down with her. it's time to move on.

@ PectoralisMajor

you missed the point. she has set up drinks with her friends. and i'm her friend and am expected to go. her bf. just happens to be going as well.

i have given it so thought and i think i might skip it. IF i can find something better to do witch wont be THAT hard.

 

[Packers2010]

You want her back? Ok. GO with a hot girl friend and be affectionate so that your 7yearlove will get jealous. Girls get jealous very easily. If you pull this off, she will get jealous, develop feelings for you, dump her bf, and get with you. I'm being completely serious. This will work. But what I wrote was really optimistic and the reality is that you've known this girl for 7 years and haven't gotten with her so that means you are really scared of her.

the thing is. i don't want her back. i'm down with her. it's time to move on.

@ PectoralisMajor

you missed the point. she has set up drinks with her friends. and i'm her friend and am expected to go. her bf. just happens to be going as well.

i have given it so thought and i think i might skip it. IF i can find something better to do witch wont be THAT hard.

A Don Juan puts himself in +EV (even money) situations. Just remember the rule.

You + female = +EV situation, romance
You + female + her obnoxious girlfriends = -EV situation
You + female + her obnoxious girlfriends + her bf = HIGHLY -EV SITUATION!

...

if this girl knows you like her (she was your former gf?) and she invites you to hangout with her + her boyfriend that is like she spitting in your face.

now i am a poker player and this is something i understand.

so i just don't go. could stay home and read the book of pook. would be more better use of my time.


she wasn't my gf. we had a thing for a while. after she broke up from her last bf. we just had lots of sex. was good. tho my feelings did get in the way a bit lol

Damn this is truly sad for many reasons....

1) One he knows he's chumpin' it but still ignores his better judgment

true

2) He's been obsessed with this girl for 7 years!!!

i say 7 years. cos thats when i started to like her. i did have a gf and stuff throughout those 7 years. plus for 3 of them she was't around. so it's more like 2 at the start 2 at the end. maybe.

3) He's playing mental tug of war in his own head, one side screaming "WTF are you doing!!" The other side hoping if he just keeps hanging around her "she'll eventually like him like that."

this is true. but lately the left side is winning. i just have to work out what side the left side is on.

Dude tough love here from me, but your being an ABSOLUTE doormat! Get your head out of the sand and if you want to get out of this rut, do as others have said

Yeah, this whole thing is pointless.
And the fact that you need to get hammered before you even go just proves it. Obviously you find meeting her and her boyfriend there painful, or you wouldn't need to get high and drunk before showing up. I suppose you want her to see how wasted you are and want her to feel sorry for you. Well, I got news for you: Girls are not attracted to guys that they pity.

Take your six months no contact now, or better yet the rest of your life. Forget this pointless, dramatic, one final meetup garbage. It's been seven years, better start getting your act together.

i know it's pointless but i still do it.

the thing is tho. she is a good friend. i have fun with her. but i'm not sure if thats because i like her. or because she really is a good friend. i have made the realization that things need to change. but i still want her to be my friend. i just don't want to like her anymore. and i'm not sure if i can have both. then again. i'm just playing into her hands because this is what she will want too.


i think all in all, this thing is so stupid. a part of me really wants her as a friend. cos we have been threw so much together. like... i just want her in my life. even if i can't be with her. it doesn't matter. this could just be the oneitis talking.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

TS. You are being paged in a PM. Get your a$$ in there NOW.

 

[Packers2010]

don't worry about it guys i can't go now she uninvited me.

i got drunk last night and txt her. call her a slut then she got pissed off at me ( obvs ) then called me and i stared laughing.

my friend was there, and the girl i like was nagging on the phone. so i turn to my friend and say. if i wanted to be nagged to death i would have got a gf. and started laughing. was really funny.

so because of this drunken crap. she hates me now and doesn't want to be my friend n ****. so now i don't have to feel guilty n ****.

now i can move on with my life.

win / win i say

 

[SharinganUser]

don't worry about it guys i can't go now she uninvited me.

i got drunk last night and txt her. call her a slut then she got pissed off at me ( obvs ) then called me and i stared laughing.

my friend was there, and the girl i like was nagging on the phone. so i turn to my friend and say. if i wanted to be nagged to death i would have got a gf. and started laughing. was really funny.

so because of this drunken crap. she hates me now and doesn't want to be my friend n ****. so now i don't have to feel guilty n ****.

now i can move on with my life.

win / win i say

You need to have a long sit down and figure out why you are doing this crap.

 

[Masculinity]

the thing is. i don't want her back. i'm down with her. it's time to move on.

Bullsh!t, you are hung on this girl and you know it. You're going through withdrawal; this girl wants you to see her with her new bf; women love the idea of men fighting over them and drama...ohhh... they freaking LOVE drama. Why do you think they can't stop watching those dumb shows and reading magazines?

Gooosh, if I knew you in real life I would have fvcking b!tch-slapped the sh!t out of you and get you outta this pvssy trance you've fallen into. I rarely curse, but I'm actually pissed right now. This behavior is what keeps women seeing men as nothing.

DO NOT EVEN THINK ABOUT GOING IF YOU WANT TO MOVE ON!!! WAKE THE FVCK UP!!!

 

[Credos]

don't worry about it guys i can't go now she uninvited me.

i got drunk last night and txt her. call her a slut then she got pissed off at me ( obvs ) then called me and i stared laughing.

my friend was there, and the girl i like was nagging on the phone. so i turn to my friend and say. if i wanted to be nagged to death i would have got a gf. and started laughing. was really funny.

so because of this drunken crap. she hates me now and doesn't want to be my friend n ****. so now i don't have to feel guilty n ****.

now i can move on with my life.

win / win i say

Yaaaaay, we're 21 and we're acting like a baby...

Dude, clearly you ain't over her... Stop contacting her... Block her on facebook, block her number on your cellphone... Completly erase her from your life...

After that: Stop acting like a baby... Your reaction was just childish

 

[J Roc]

Abort Mission! Eject!!

 

[Packers2010]

Yaaaaay, we're 21 and we're acting like a baby...

Dude, clearly you ain't over her... Stop contacting her... Block her on facebook, block her number on your cellphone... Completly erase her from your life...

After that: Stop acting like a baby... Your reaction was just childish

after this

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=182247

done, done and done.

and THIS time i MEAN done!

 

[f283000]

I have never seen anybody on sosuave get so many members wanting to b|tchslap him!

Packers2010, I hope you realize what this woman has done to you. You are losing your dignity, you're embarrassing yourself. You're young, you'll get plenty of women she's just one of many.

Take a shower, put on some nice clothes, some cologne, take yourself to the your local hotspot, say Hi to some girls, feel good about yourself, treat yourself to some good food at a restaurant. It's what I do when I feel down.

 

[Packers2010]

I have never seen anybody on sosuave get so many members wanting to b|tchslap him!

one of a kind man

Packers2010, I hope you realize what this woman has done to you. You are losing your dignity, you're embarrassing yourself. You're young, you'll get plenty of women she's just one of many.

yeah i knew sometime ago. but now it's DONE. and when i say done. i mean OVER> F ING FINISHED! OVEEEEEERRRRRR.



Take a shower, put on some nice clothes, some cologne, take yourself to the your local hotspot, say Hi to some girls, feel good about yourself, treat yourself to some good food at a restaurant. It's what I do when I feel down.

yeah. i might do in a few weeks. poor now. but i do have more confidence then i have ever had. so i must owe it to yall for b|tchslap slapping me.