“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
The girl i have fallen for who has a Boyfriend.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
nothing you can do now. Maybe cut all contact with her for at least 6 months, in which time you change yourself and then approach her as a different, more attractive person. Though most likely after that time you won't want to bother with her.Inspired said:
You are demonstrating that you feel they should come 1st in life ('her bf doesn't appreciate her!', you insinuate), and that attitude will get you cheated on and/or dumped excessively, if you continue it.
as far as education on women and you:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/member.php?u=19268
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/member.php?u=23336
just read through their posts in any given thread; spend some hours doing it. Take their advice to heart, and ye shall be enlightened.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
avoid any unnecessary contact. If you work with her just treat her like a coworker and if she tries to talk to you about things that aren't work related then politely end the conversation. And do not text/IM/call her, EVER!Inspired said:
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ironically, the only way to get her to like you now, is to improve yourself so much that she won't be up to YOUR standards.Inspired said:
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1. forget about her. I know exactly how you feel, but if you just cut contact with her for a week or so, you wont feel like this anymore.Inspired said:
2. her thinking that you've lost interest is exactly what will spark interest in her.
3. #2 is only true if she had some respect for you in the first place, and she didn't, so lets go back and do #1.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
well the best thing I can say to this is as follows: you probably won't get her, she's not interested in you so you can't make her interested in you. She just doesn't find you attractive (don't know why, but there's a reason). The idea of cutting contact with her is that in 6 months (or whatever) when you come back into her life as a different person (this is key, if your the same as now you'll get the same result) she might forget what you were like before and be attracted to the new you. Yes it is a gamble, there is a chance it will turn her off. Most likely though she'll be confused to why your acting the way you are and she might even come after you for your attention. The best thing to do is to forget about her and change yourself. Good luck.Inspired said:
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What i meant in that post was that for you to get to the point where she will like you, you will have already lost interest in her because you will have become so great that she does not live up to your standards.Inspired said:
I know it's mind boggling at first, but read that sentence again and try to understand it.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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You are almost twice her age. Most 18 yo girls are immature
Second you work in a store and you are her supperior... not sure where you work but most jobs will consider firing you if they find out u guys are together.
Third , its not good to mix work and pleasure...if the relationship goes bad work will be very ackword.
Forth, she says she has a bf who she loves so you are prolly friendzoned already