"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

The games people play

sosilky

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 26, 2008
Messages
518
Reaction score
3
$

bang bang bang on the door , loveshack baby loveshack
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

jacob

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 21, 2007
Messages
287
Reaction score
11
Here's my take on this game playing. See girls are the ones endowed with beauty and when they're young they're already attracting males attention. Hence pedophiles, young girls being molested, what have you, and that's why they mature faster than boys cause the older guys are already exposing them to sex at an earlier stage in life. Then they become desensitized to sex and the effects of it and look more for a guys personality instead. And because of their experience that guys get ***** whipped and attached and possessive, they have to use tests in order to see who's strong enough not to get whipped, and this is for their own safety. The guys, even if they don't want to, have to play and master the game in order to mate, less the girl finds him to be another typical male who just wants sex. But you see girls get ideas and rules for the game from reading materials like Cosmo or the like and take it to be gospel and follow that, and so guys have to counter that by reading Maxim or sites like this hence we get structure and strategy for the game, then we behave in that way. And it's all BS. It's shallow and it only leads to more game playing. Blame society. It's a cultural thing, cause this game playing is more a western style of courting and say in Africa it's a whole new ball game.
 
Top