"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Game Never Changes

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http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=49043

In response to the above thread:


1. Unfortuantely if being yourself got you to where you are...alone and dateless then you do need to remake yourself.

2. Wishing shyt was a certain way will not make it come true...I wish there was a Santa Claus so I wouldn't have to spend so much each year.

3. I feel you though. It's to bad shyt is this way. That is why I set out long ago to master the game. It just takes doing the work. By work I mean go out and meet people.

4. There are no magic techniques to learn. What you need to do is just make yourself walk over and open your mouth. Whats the worse she can say...and those are only just words out of someones mouth.

5. I just told my white buddy yesterday this shyt and over time it gets easier. The more you open your mouth to women the easier it will get. The easier it gets the more confident YOU will become. The more confident you feel the greater your success margin becomes. The greater your success margin is the more women will become attracted to YOU... Until you end up like:

http://www.sacscene.com/pn1/modules...=view_photo.php

Then getting women becomes no big deal. And when the more women you get the more you learn how to handle them and yourself as a MAN. The easier it becomes to get them the less shyt you take from them...cause you know you can replace them in one weekend. The easier you can replace them.....the less importance they take upon YOUR happiness....then you come full circle and realize that you never needed women to make YOU happy to begin with..

But you can't take short cuts to get there...cause it will only be fake. Some paths you really do have to tread to get to the destination.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Great tip PS. Thanks for taking my suggestion that you cut and paste it here in tips. This tip is the short and practical version of so many of the other theories on this site.
 

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"4. There are no magic techniques to learn. What you need to do is just make yourself walk over and open your mouth. Whats the worse she can say...and those are only just words out of someones mouth. "


Exactly!!! The worse thing that can happen is she laughs in your face and you die from embarasment. But do you really think this will happen, and if she does laugh, so F'n what?
 

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Originally posted by Skel
"4. There are no magic techniques to learn. What you need to do is just make yourself walk over and open your mouth. Whats the worse she can say...and those are only just words out of someones mouth. "


Exactly!!! The worse thing that can happen is she laughs in your face and you die from embarasment. But do you really think this will happen, and if she does laugh, so F'n what?
Exactly!
 
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