"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The 'Game' Material

kakandung

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Hello.

Few words about the so-called 'game' material.

A 'game' material is a girl whom novice DJs use to practice their DJ skills. Think about On-The-Job training. A warm-up lap. She's challenging enough to game to, and it's a good education to game her, but in the end, most DJs are able to crank her IL to the extreme. You don't want her, no matter good it feels when you're beside her. What you want is only an experience by dating her. Basically, she's not a girl you want to have LTR with. She maybe an 8, 9 or even 10. She may be a good girl, a GF material or even a marriage material. The particular trait of this girl is that she's highly susceptible to 'game'. She may or may not have high IL to begin with, but she is so 'gameable/playable' that her IL can swing high, even to 90s range.

A 'game' material isn't a bad girl per se. It's that you must continuously playing game if you want successful LTR with her. That's less of a problem if her initial IL is high enough. But say if her initial IL is only in the 60s, once you stop gaming, more often than not, her IL will return back to it's initial value. Worse, there's nothing can stop other DJs to game her. Assuming you already in LTR with her (and stop playing game), she will be easily susceptible to game by other men. Even if her BF is a master DJ, she will flee to enjoy the game of a novice DJ.

Most 'game' material I know are very nice to be with. They are good, beautiful girl with charming/friendly personality, and not those usual 'hot chicks' people fap to. They are different from the Drama Queen (who are drowned and blinded by emotions), Sluts/Bad Girl (who are addicted to challenge), or the Risk-Taker. Mostly tho, they are young and a little bit on the naive side.

For a nice and comfortable LTR, you should find a good girl that is NOT a 'game' material (but NO, not 100% immune to the game either). A good girl who has high initial IL to you, yet her IL shouldn't gameable to the extreme end. That kind of girl, once commit in a relationship, usually is more mature and require less game in the long run. AND she's able to defend herself if other men are trying to play game on her.



Good Luck.
kakandung
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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