"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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THE GAME (just finished readin it)

TheOnE111

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I thought it was very entertaining and a very good book. Even though while i did enjoy it, I felt as there was a clear difference between the dj's and the pua's. I like the dj's natural feel to dating and getting woman. Not only that but how girls arent just the only thing in a DJ's life style.

It seemed more natural the way its done here, versus how its done by the puas. Ive mainly bein reading posts for the past couple of months on here, never really engaged in anything. This is my first official (in my opinion) post here.

Im starting to see that there is alot more things to life besides girls. Im not exactly a noobie in "THE GAME", nor will i ever claim myself to be one of the best. Everyone can improve at anything and theres always someone better than someone at something.

-TheOne is out-
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I read it also some months ago ... good book, just the end was a little too long ... my opinion
 

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TheOnE111 said:
...Im starting to see that there is alot more things to life besides girls.
Once you are able to get past all of the "looks" and "race" threads, you'll find a lot of posts about this mindset in the forum.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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