Dhoulmagus
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Most girls refuse to even talk to me. The girls I have gotten were extremely aggressive and all I had to do was breathe.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
The game is such a catch 22
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DonGorgon
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yup me\any men are facing this problem cause its 60 men to one woman so females standards are way high now
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Go for hotter girls, out of my experience the ugly ones are the ruder ones. I made a post about it a few months ago.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
JaegerPilot217
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for me the hardest part is being assertive, taking action and at the same time not being desperate, avoid trying too hard, if the line was not so unfortuneately easy to cross, then growing a pair and just Man up would be so much easierDhoulmagus said: