"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"the Game" Is Just A Game

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Tonight i went out with a mission to chat people up. My opener was a magic trick. It worked like half the time but the point was that I communicated with people. I only 2 rejection out of 6 people. I went to women and men, groups and singles, it didn't matter. With 2 I had a post-trick conversation but nothing really special, meaning no IOI from the women. The best thing was that I went in with the mentality of just talking to people. It's great to find that people are all the same even myself. We want to talk but sometime were afraid. When I got rejected I didn't really think twice about it because it's all just a game. Next mission for tomorrow is to talk to HB9 all day. Just talking though.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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cool, but I hate the whole idea of being a jester.
 
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good! looks like you're doing the practice stuff in the dj bible... if not, you should check it out.

they have lots of exercises like this to kill your fear of talking to strangers.

later on, when the exercises have you approach chicks, the goal is to fail... to fail and fail and fail so that it's sting becomes FAMILIAR and UNMYSTERIOUS and altogether not too bad.

not a bad way to work out the kinks.

delta

p.s. starting with magic tricks is kinda like you're a david blane special or something... if the goal is to be able to approach hot chicks for a pick up, try without the magic on the approach. gotta find a way to just approach and create any TRIVIAL INTERACTION and then gauge their interest.

magic tricks are killer for KEEPING IT GOING... but starting off with it may signal to women that you're not a "man" but a "street performer".
 
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