"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The game in college; I've forgotten the ways

itishe

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Much like women I've learned the ways of swinging branches or spinning plates as we call them. I've been with my broad for 2 years and now I'm in a different environment, the world of college.

I had trouble last semester as my regular world approach just didn't seem to work on college kids in class, etc. (approach, get number, call, date, ****). The fact I've become rusty is a definate non-helper.

There is this broad I've become really attracted to in one of my classes. She has this cute Italian look and I want some of that. The only problem is I don't know to really open to her this far into a semester (seems weird introducing myself by randomly sitting next to her one day 2 months into school).

What would you do? I got the balls to do it, just not sure what to do here.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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itishe said:
Much like women I've learned the ways of swinging branches or spinning plates as we call them. I've been with my broad for 2 years and now I'm in a different environment, the world of college.

I had trouble last semester as my regular world approach just didn't seem to work on college kids in class, etc. (approach, get number, call, date, ****). The fact I've become rusty is a definate non-helper.

There is this broad I've become really attracted to in one of my classes. She has this cute Italian look and I want some of that. The only problem is I don't know to really open to her this far into a semester (seems weird introducing myself by randomly sitting next to her one day 2 months into school).

What would you do? I got the balls to do it, just not sure what to do here.


Hey man whats up-do a icebreaker-its simple-do you see her outside of class? if so catch her when she's by herself preferably....Then ask her a question about class-from there talk the usual bs we talk about in college-whats your major? are you from here? do you live in the area or the dorms? etc. now after you asked her all this you should be getting a pretty good feel about her. If its all good ask her out on a simple, light date-like the local hot hangout spot or something and take it from there.

But again as always:
 

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I never run into her at any other time so I gotta make this medium work. Any ideas for openers that can actual lead to a conversation if I just go sit by her?
 

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Make a funny observation about the proffesor or one of the people in your class. "hey, do you notice that the professor blinks abnormally fast, or is it just me?" Or just ask her about a topic thats fairly easy and pretend that you have no clue about, but dont make it to easy or else she thinks your dumb. Good luck bro, College should be the easiest place to meet women, so just go out there and have fun.

I just went back to do respiratory therapy and have been dating nothing over 21 years old. and I am 27. These girls have the most amazing bodies.
 
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