Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The future of Sosuave?

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Is there a limit to how much more DJism can teach us?

Think about this:

> Why has the Bible not grown over the past year(s)?

> Many of the older posters no longer post. Is this because they have learnt all they need?

> To what extent can a newbie today really contribute?

An argument to this: With more questions than answers, maybe there is new ground to break?

So my question is: Is the future of Suauve the reinterpretation of the DJ Bible?

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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why are you so obsessed with where this is going, it is organic, it will go where it will. You could try and help some of the people who are failing in what they want to do.
 
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Originally posted by JSH
why are you so obsessed with where this is going, it is organic, it will go where it will. You could try and help some of the people who are failing in what they want to do.
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Couldnt have said it better myself.

Most bible posts are simply for motivation. U have to learn the game yourself. Then once u have vast experience in the game, u can help others who are going through the same process.
 
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this site is a crutch until you got your inner game going. That is why the older posters left. They perfected there inner game and left this site.
 
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The point of this site is not to "Add to the DJ Bible". Take a look at the bible, it is consists entirely of POSTS from the FORUM. Think about it.. The old posters such as Pook and Adonis who are in the bible.. at one point their posts weren't in the bible.. they got in the bible by giving good advice in their POSTS.

So to sum it all up for simple minds..

The DJ Bible and future of this site = POSTING ADVICE IN THE FORUMS

If I need to explain more just say so.:rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The "older posters" have not left. There are still a few of us here. Quiet a few, just dont post as regularly as before. DJ bible material comes from the tips forum so if u want something in the bible, think up something unique and write it. Although u will have to be a creative writer and be able to articulate your thoughts onto "paper" well.

I personally think if you arent a total retard with woman, and have been here a while u should not need the bible. U should have the experience and have learnt from it. The discussion forum is much more usefull for individual situations and for helping people out once u are already accomplished.
 
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As long as you young minds take heed of PuertoRican_Lover's wise counsel you will be ok! I don't need the bible - "I am GOD!" The bible was created for you mortals!

Pray that I don't leave this forum and it starts being taking over by effeminate weak-minded posters!
 
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DJ gets the WBAFC and AFC to about rAFC level. And that's about it.

For advanced tactics and material, you have to go somewhere else or really push yourself out in the real world.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Frankie Poullain
Is there a limit to how much more DJism can teach us?

Think about this:

> Why has the Bible not grown over the past year(s)?

> Many of the older posters no longer post. Is this because they have learnt all they need?

> To what extent can a newbie today really contribute?

An argument to this: With more questions than answers, maybe there is new ground to break?

So my question is: Is the future of Suauve the reinterpretation of the DJ Bible?

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First, Quit questioning our killer ethic.

Secondly, the bible hasn't grown because hello... Has the holy bible grown over the last 100 years. No. It contains what is needed and doesn't overkill you with more.

On with the next... Many of the old posters no longer post because we have a life. Next...

Today a newbie can contribute a lot. I don't know if you have ever heard of the search function, but with it, a newb might even have the ability to rip up my skill if he applies himself.

Indulge.
 
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Well, good question. I would like to think that, ideally, all of those people got what they needed from this site, and went on to become what they wanted to be. Why hasn't the bible been updated? It's got everything you need to know in it. There really isn't, honestly, A WHOLE lot to know. Once you've got a fair hand on the basics, which pretty much are confidence, CA, speaking skills, and learning to read IL, you don't really have much more to learn. From that point on, you fine tune your game. Its like going to college: once you graduate, you leave. Out into the real world. Much like college, the site can't teach you everything. It can give you tips, show you how to approach, etc, but it can't teach you to LIVE IT. The site is also like math: DJ'ing is NOT a spectator sport. I KNOW that MANY guys on this site read this site, and half ass alot of the stuff on here when they go out. So sure, new people will always be coming in and brining in new ideas, but know that everything you need to know is already in here.

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A lot of the "older" posters (age wise) are in the Mature Man Forum.

A lot of the "older" posters (in terms of skills) have gone off to bang the many women the AFC's are falling down over.
 
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