"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Future: A frightening, yet warming, prospect.

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My Senior Year in High School is slowly passing by quicker than I had expected. Since eighth grade I could not wait until I graduate High School, and attend university! I anticipated independence from my parents in a healthy social and academic environment to grow and mature into a strong (mentally and physically) man. I had a plan; I was set for life, I thought.

To be honest, now, I am scared ****less; as my heart beats faster with excitement... It's ironic; I am happy, yet scared. I can't stand living with my parents. I want to be independent; rich and successful. I want to live the LIFE!

I am battling an internal conflict of pursing a lucrative career for only one reason--to earn millions; or pursue my a career I have always found interest in since ninth grade that is not as lucrative.

Though, I am hooked onto both careers; the challenge to succeed in either career drives me.

A career in Business (I-banking; or anything that relates to investments) versus a career in Law. I am not too crazy about mathematics, a skill necessary to become a very successful businessman. I have to spend more time in that subject to master it, as opposed to law-related work. I have a natural gift in debating, etc. Though, I am also gifted with a business sense.

It is inherently split down the middle.

Once I figure this problem out, I will be able to handle other situations that may present itself as time goes on.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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08aisaac

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Umm, yeah.

Well, neither of those career options sound interesting to me. I'm a computer kind of guy personally.
 

Abbott

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What are you scared of?

When I was in my second semester as a Senior in high school, I was counting down the days. I didn't even attend my own graduation because I wanted to be done with it ASAP.

As far as career choice you have to decide sometime. Decide now. You do have some freedom in that the first year of college is similar for most college students, so you can even decide to make up your mind then. Of course, I strongly urge you to decide quickly, because it means less time, money, and effort wasted.

Also think about: What kind of things do I want to do? Do they require money? If so, is it worth it to give up those things to take another job you think you'll like better, but pays less?


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I came to my decision! I will go into the field of law; most likely corporate.
 

itishe

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I always thought it'd be exciting to be a mercenary.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm now in 2nd year at university previously doing actuary/law now actuary/finance. Reason for the change was because I liked the business side of things a lot more than legal.

There'll be a time when you realize what you really want in life. Best of luck!
 

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Originally posted by Contender
I came to my decision! I will go into the field of law; most likely corporate.
Good luck, I hope you've got strong values;)

Being in law and being good at it calls for you to have an extreme sense of self. You've got to be able to drop everything you know to know what is going on...

Be prepared to twist stories, hold back truths, and judge people like you've never done before.

Being corporate is a step above regular law, you become a lacky, forcably(sp?) a yes man, and you don't have the choice of 'speaking' to your client before taking on his case... You will get great benefits and be allowed to study into the background prior to any situations arise.

So what industry field are you hoping to cover, and why?
 
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