"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Love_Games?!?

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Hello all, I'm sure you've heard it all before... but I'd like to know what is the best way to remove yourself from the friend zone?

I'm sure their is a great thread already about this topic, so if you could direct me to it that would be great.

Thx for the help!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The best way is to NOT get into the friend zone to begin with.
 
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you have increase her interest level and some how get her to view you more than a friend, something potential. you need to show her you have value, something she craves, instead of a shoulder to cry on, give her feelings mix feelings, stay aloof, be scarce, create absences
 
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coacj said:
yo my man, this should help you out
http://www.sosuave.com/articles/platonic.htm
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Gangster Of Love said:
The best way is to NOT get into the friend zone to begin with.
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sexy kuta said:
you have increase her interest level and some how get her to view you more than a friend, something potential. you need to show her you have value, something she craves, instead of a shoulder to cry on, give her feelings mix feelings, stay aloof, be scarce, create absences.
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Hi-5 to all three of you! These are THE ANSWERS to your question. If you somehow get LJBF'd, say "I have enough friends. Buh-Bye!"

Rock on, bro! Happy new Year!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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nismo-4 said:
Hi-5 to all three of you! These are THE ANSWERS to your question. If you somehow get LJBF'd, say "I have enough friends. Buh-Bye!"

Rock on, bro! Happy new Year!
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Thx Nismo, hoping too not get the LJBF's, but If I do maybe a break from her will do some good...
 
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