the friend zone is NOT a bad thing

[Jack-Torrance]

You cannot be friends with a girl you are attracted to. It really is that simple. The more you hang out together the more you will fall for her and the worse you feel.

You CANNOT be friends with a girl you are attracted to.

Please do NOT do this to yourself. Go ahead and be associates or whatever, but do not make the horrible mistake of spending time with her. Please.

 

[terran2k]

glad some of you guys pointed out that he wasn't in the "friendzone".
I know some dude would read it and use it as validation to continue trying to be "friends" with some chic that he likes, only to get torn up.
so maybe you all should be careful about the advice you give and how you give it.

and like Jack-Torrance said, you cannot be friend with a girl you're attracted too.

 

[tempaccount2011]

This isn't friend zone. This is a friend. Nobody ever said don't have female friends Einstein. Jesus...

 

[Packers2010]

If women friend zone you then fvck them. Don't even waste your time spitting on them because they're not worth the time. Friend zone means she's not attracted to you and doesn't want to fvck you.

ok. we all know this is true. BUT! right now. i am ****ing my bestfriend. and i'm dam sure i have told her i love her about. 100000 times. she has done the same also.

funny thing is she wont date me. even tho most of the time we act like we are. not in public tho.

so there must be SOME truth to your statement.

 

[powpow]

hey guys thanks for the input. supremely good discussion. this is the first time I can honestly say that I have been down with just being friends with women. they are a ton of fun.

so the friendzone that I used is a misnomer, huh? anyway, I am so down with this. honestly, I AM attracted to them, but you guys think its possible to separate your emotions? Ive had no problem accepting that they just arent into me, and its cool. works out just fine.

 

[Packers2010]

hey guys thanks for the input. supremely good discussion. this is the first time I can honestly say that I have been down with just being friends with women. they are a ton of fun.

so the friendzone that I used is a misnomer, huh? anyway, I am so down with this. honestly, I AM attracted to them, but you guys think its possible to separate your emotions? Ive had no problem accepting that they just arent into me, and its cool. works out just fine.

for me. no. never. that isn't an option. the afc in me wont let me break the hold but if you think you can do it then give it a shot.

 

[PapiChulo]

I have a buddy like that who runs this AFC game trying to be friends with many women at the same time. They take him places where he meets even more women or is introduced to them, but he is still single and doesnt get laid (nor should he in my opinion)