“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The Four Corners of Affection

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I think there's four places where you are judged in every relationship with a woman. You either own or lose each one. Add up your score, and you will know how much you really have her. They are listed in no particular order, each is worth one point. The object is to assess where you are in a relationship you already have, not to try to score all four points with every woman.

#1 - The Conscious Mind. This is the place of logic. We talk a lot about the emotional aspect of women, but in making choices about LTRs and marriage they do factor in things like stability and financial security. Smaller things like having similar, or at least compatible interests factor in as well, and agreement over life choices like having kids. Some relationships make good logical sense, and others just don't.

#2 - The Sub-Conscious Mind.
Daddy rules this place, as well as any past abuse or traumatic experiences. Whether or not you get the point here is not going to be fair; no one can really control it, but it's still very important. It is also often very illogical. You might lose this point because she was abused in the past and needs a man who will beat her. Or maybe daddy was a great guy, and you win the subconscious by being a great guy who reminds her of him.

#3 - The Heart. Love is a real thing, at least in regard to influencing the choices people make. And it's not always obvious. I think a lot of divorced couples still love each other, but that wasn't enough by itself to make a lasting marriage. The heart, like the other three areas, all influence each other, and yet are still separate. The longer you've been together, the more likely you are to have her heart.

#4 - The Vagina. You knew it was coming. And speaking of cvmming, that is what #4 is all about. It's not a d!ck-measuring contest. If you can really make her get off full-force, then the vagina is yours. And once again, all four corners tie together, so they can also impact this one too, thus the perplexing complexity of the female orgasm. A large part of it can be emotional.

Whatever you scored, that's where you stand with a woman. That's how much of her is yours. What specific score she requires is an altogether separate question. It's different with each woman and changes over her lifetime anyway.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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